My husband thinks my best friend is beautiful...?

Question

Should I worry...?

Answer 1

Find uglier friends...........

Answer 2

Depends on what type of person he is.

Personally, just because I acknowledge a person is beautiful it doesn't necessarily translate into a physical or even a sexual attraction to her. Sometimes, I can acknowledge a woman is beautiful just like I can acknowledge that a sunset is beautiful, or a flock of swans flying is beautiful, or an athlete making a dunk or a particular touchdown is a beautiful thing to behold. Some things are just pleasing to look at.

You may go to a friend's house and say "Oh I love the view! It's beautiful!" Does that mean you wanna have sex with the view?

Answer 3

I don't think you should worry if you trust both of them...
I mean if you walk don't the street or into a store and see a handsome guy you probably think 'wow that guy is good looking' right...
However, if it seems something else is going on talk to your husband and ask what is going on and why did he make sure you knew that he thought she was beautiful...
This is a hard one if you trust them both don't worry about it... If there is a trust issue then maybe you should think about why there is a trust issue and try to work on it and talk to your husband... It is natural for people to look at other people just as long as they don't cross the line of just looking... As one of my married friends used to say to me ~ Doesn’t matter where you get your appetite just as long as you eat at home

Good luck I wish you the best

Answer 4

There are beautiful women all over the place. I don't think that alone is a reason to worry. If your husband cannot be trusted maybe you should worry.

Answer 5

Your husband is honest enough to be frank with you and you should be glad. My husband seems to think my best friend is beautiful, and I think so too! Instead of getting green, why not compliment your friend know with it. Many times, I tell him about all the cute guys I saw at the malls, meetings etc. I tell him which celebrities I have a crush on, and he didn't mind it at all. Instead when we're at the movie store, he'll go 'Ohh look! There's your hero. Wanna rent that one?'

Answer 6

If she is beautiful then she is. Watch out though. Tell your best friend how you want her to handle it so that you won't get jealous. Make sure she is truly a friend & she'll put him in his place when, not if, but when he makes advances towards her. Don't let him come between you 2. Husbands come & go, but good friends last a life time.

Answer 7

Well, trust is very important. If you know and trust your
mate, there is nothing to worry about. It could just be a comment in passing. When married, I advice to let your
husband be your best friend. There are some ties you
need to cut loose in order to avoid problems in your marriage. Pray and use a lot of wisdom.

Answer 8

What was the context of this conversation? Did he just out of the blue say that or was there a conversation that lead up to it?
Is it out of his character to say something like that? If there was a conversation leading up to his comment, then I wouldn't worry too much. If he did just say it out of the blue, that's a little strange. I think most men might think that his girlfriend's friends are beautiful but they normally keep those thoughts to themselves.

Answer 9

Depends on your marriage and every one is diffferent but I always had beautiful g/f's, we were an attractive couple. Is she married too? My "ex" must have been attracted to the same people I was because he had several affairs with some of my friends, married and unmarried. Of course, they weren't really my friends but I learned to recognize the signs. Eye contact is a big give away.

Answer 10

Only if he acts differently in front of her like he's trying to impress her or something. Or if he pays a lot of attention to her. Otherwise, it's nothing to worry about. I mean a lot of people think other men/women are beautiful even if they have a spouse. It can only be an opinion.

Answer 11

Your husband has a right to his opinion. If it bothers you, find a guy you think is really good looking and tell your husband. Don't forget that beauty is only skin deep!