Is marriage really permanent or do you have to renew it every day?

Answer 1

It you're smart, you'll renew it each and every day to your lovely wife or husband.

Answer 2

Marriage is permanent. I don't know what you mean by renew it every day. I think one shouldn't take it for granted and say, Well, I'm married now, I don't have to try or work at it any more. Marriage IS: wanting to be your best for your mate, doing things for him/her, not thinking only of yourself, compromising etc. I think we need to get up every morning and pray that we will be the best mate we can possibly be. it takes work, patience, and understanding and these are just a few of the things we need to work at to have a great marriage. The marriage isn't renewed every day. It is always constant. but we must renew our pledge to be the best we can be every day.

Answer 3

You have to renew your commitment every day - this is a very good question.

I read somewhere that a couple that had been married for a long time - 50 or more years - was asked for the secret to a long marriage - their answer - "we never fell out of love at the same time".

Marriage is alot of work.

Answer 4

It is permanent and that's why it requires renewal. Marriage has to be polished and given attention. Turning it in many directions gives it the diversity it needs to survive. Each person needs to make sure they get enough solitude each week to so they continue to bring themselves to the relationship lest they becomes too homoginized and lose themselves. It needs to be petted & groomed and checked for parasites. Mirrors should be readily available so accurate reflections of behaviors good and bad can be seen. There's nothing like the element of surprise, a most important aspect of romance & marriage. Physical love is crutial and you have to make sure you make love and f**k. Be spiritual with each other and playful. Mix it up.

Yeah. Every day.

Answer 5

It's definitely not permanent judging from the huge divorce rate. But it can take work to create a happy and healthy marriage. Couples that are committed to each other will find ways to get through the tough times. The rest just divorce and start on another bad marriage because they aren't willing to put in the hard work.

Answer 6

marriage is NOT permanent ! you have to work at it every day or you will find something else to work on. I know I have been married for almost 15 yrs. and there was a time that I quit working on mine and guess what? I found someone else to work on. I didnt mean to but I let my intrest im my marriage kinda die off and the next thing I knew I had been seeing some other females and had an ongoing relationship with one of them for a while. but a funny thing happened I went to jail for 9 1/2 mos. and you know what? my wife was the ONLY one of them who cared enough about me to even come and see me, when she, of all of them had the least reason to have ANYTHING to do with me she did. ya know why? because SHE never quit working on her marriage that was 4 yrs ago and today we both work very hard to keep what we have got and I wouldn't have it any other way because I LOVE MY WIFE

Answer 7

I think "renew" is not the word. I guess keeping it grow for the better is more appropriate. Keeping it grow by maintaining an open communication with each other, verbalize your feelings towards each other like saying, "i love you" or "i miss you". Learn to say "i'm sorry" when needed. Hug and kiss everyday. Learn to listen to each other. Do things together. Joke at each other. Oh, there are a lot!

Answer 8

It's permanent unless you get a divorce, but if you renew it everyday then you guys will be happily married unlike those couples who hate each other and can't wait to get a divorce because all the sparks are gone.

Answer 9

Renew it every day! If you do it will be the best marriage ever!

Answer 10

You must feed your marriage with love and caring every day. Treat you partner as if they are an important guest in your life and your marriage will be permanent and happy.