1) Is it better to Love someone madly, but not be loved in return, or
2) To be loved by someone, madly, but not be in love with them?
2007-06-28 02:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by X 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would have to go with #1. The way I see it..... I guess from my view..... is that if I were to love someone madly, there's no way that would have happened unless something had grown out of an amazing friendship where I got to experience so much with him to the point where I started appreciating him in a way that went beyond friendship.
Ok ..... so he doesn't love me as I love him. I could so face that. It doesn't mean my feelings for him would change. But what I know is that no matter what, I have this amazing friend that I adore and admire and just LOVE being around. How could that not make me happy?? How could I not still be content?
If it were the other way around and he loved me but I didn't love him. I would feel so quilty. I know I would keep pushing him away as if to show him all of the other possibilities out there in life ..... and I know that in doing so it would only push him further away from our friendship. **shudders** I would hate that. Friends mean so much to me. Sooooo much more than having that love of your life. I would never ever want to be the cause of someone's pain. I wanna make them happy.....
So I would have to say that definitely for me.... it would be better to love someone.... even if that love could not be returned.
2007-06-28 23:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a catch 22 proposition.
2007-06-28 12:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna have to go with 2
2007-06-28 09:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh they both stink i choose neither. u both have to love each other. if i had to choose i would pick #2
2007-06-28 09:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by sam w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither mate but it's a toughie!!!!!
2007-06-28 09:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by SIR TJM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋