2007-06-28 02:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by Cris R. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I always thought that was what marriage was all about, that's what separates marriage from dating....?
2007-06-28 02:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Veno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to say its completely right but thats were most marriages are. Like I LOVE my husband but he gets on my last nerve some times and somtimes Im like "arrghhh....I wish we wouldnt have gotten married" but then again when we talk things over and get our feelings out in the table, I realize why I married him. But yes, Its definetly a love hate relationship and Im sure he feels the same way about me.
2007-06-28 09:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some people find themselves in this spot, these marriages end in divorce 99% of the time. The smart ones get out early and move on. Remember, people rarely change and the whole point in life is to be happy, loving someone that makes you unhappy is just plain pigheaded or dumb.
2007-06-28 09:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by steven f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's at least normal in my household. Sometimes I love him so much I want to be right next to him and never let go. Other times I just wish he'd put up a cot in the garage and stay there for a week.
It's part of being married!
2007-06-28 09:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a man and woman relationship? Of course - we are two different genders and see things totally different. So sometimes you don't get along with your roommate, but when its time to love your spouse we do.
2007-06-28 09:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I like that question. It really depends to what degree this 'not standing them' is.
Does he/she annoy you when you want to do work. It may be good to pinpoint the source because these are things couples dont realise before long term commitments like marriage.
It'd be great to discuss what things to like about your partner and possible things that you think need improving. Perhaps you might just need alone time now and then. But it has to be made clear so there are no confusions.
2007-06-28 09:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by essence_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "hate" in love. Couples may have irritating thoughts about one another which is normal. To actually feel hatred is not a part of love.
2007-06-28 09:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by janeyr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone has nothing to do with liking everything about them ..and if you can't stand them ,why ruin two lives ,move on ,,,or get help with your feelings...
2007-06-28 09:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by southernwildwinds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh I love him to pieces, but say he's off work for 3 days.
day one, wonderful
day two, he starts to annoy me
day three, get the HELL out of my kitchen, GO BACK TO WORK.
he drives me NUTS sometimes but I love him
2007-06-28 10:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You don't have to be married to know how that feels. Great question.
2007-06-28 09:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds about right to me
2007-06-28 09:51:52 · answer #11 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋