I just got my period during the night && my grad party is Saturday w/ a pool. So I need to use a tampon. CANT

Question

I can not put a tampon in. I tried, but it feels horrible. I don't kno what to do and I really need to be able to use it.

GUH. My period always happens on events. My school trip to DC. My birthday party. My pool party. & Now my graduation party.

I wasn't using one too big as it was Teen Lite.

I didn't put it in all the way either. I just started to but I felt it couldn't go in.

Do youhave to push hard?? I don't think i'm going at the right angle or somthing.

Answer 1

You may not like it but a tampoon is the only way I dont know why you say it feels weird it really shouldnt, I've done this before so its fine, but also if you want the blood to stop coming out, I have a trick that always seems to work, it may sound weird but the best way is to get horny, when you get turned on, the flow seems to stop for some reason, well I hope this helps

Answer 2

Applicators tampon can be easier, but you might find one without and applicator easier.
The most important thing is to relax, it also helps if there is some sort of lubrication, but if you keep trying again and again there isn't likely to be much natural lubrication left.
The easiest way I have found is to do it while sitting on the toilet seat, lean forward slightly and insert the tampon with your index finger (from the front), but everyone is different. Gently, but firmly, push it in and you should feel the tampon guide itself in at the right angle. When it is in at the right place it will stop gliding in so easily. If you can't feel it when you walk and sit down then it's probably in the right place.

Answer 3

It is probably uncomfortable because you haven't pushed it in high enough. There are muscles in your vagina and you must get the tampon past those. Then you will not feel the tampon at all. Once you start using tampons, you will never go back to pads. Just relax and practice. It may help if you do it lying down. Good luck.

Answer 4

it takes a bit of practise.
Put a bit of lubricant on the tip of the tampon. Put one foot up on a chair and RELAX. Gentle try to push the tampon in as far as you can. If you still feel something it is not in far enough.
Some women prefer a tampon with an applicator, some prefer the short ones you just dig your middlefinger into.
Practise a bit and don't dispair!

Answer 5

you're going to have to ease your way into this.

get the smallest ones available (i like using tampax pearl or playtex gentle glide). and make sure the applicator is plastic not cardboard.

the easiest way to insert one is to stand facing the tiolet seat and place one foot on top of the tiolet while leaving one foot on the ground and sliding the tampon in-once in, push the bottom piece up all the way until your fingers hit your skin then pull the entire thing out and you're done!!

it's a scary thing the first time but once you do it successfully-you'll have no issues the next time.

you won't even notice it's there once inserted and you'll be glad you have one come saturday.

congratulations on graduating and don't worry-you can do it!!!

Answer 6

Rule number one... relax.

what I had to do my first few times was stand on the floor and put one leg up on the toilet seat and then at like a 45 degree angle push it in. It's going to be snug and especially if your dry (usually after you wipe) you have to do a little extra work with the applicator. But also make sure you're getting it in the right place and RELAX RELAX

Answer 7

Internet to help u.
party hard...
have fun
A Guide to Using Your First Tampon

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You may feel nervous about using a tampon for the first time. It is normal to feel nervous, especially if you have any unanswered questions about tampons. Hopefully, this guide will answer your questions, address your worries, and make your first experience with tampons a positive one!



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What are tampons and how do they work?

Tampons, like pads, are products used to absorb your menstrual flow. They are made of soft cotton pressed together to form a cylinder-like shape, so that they can be easily inserted into the opening of the vagina. A tampon absorbs your menstrual flow, or blood, before it has a chance to leave the body. Tampons come in all different sizes and absorbencies and can be purchased at most convenience stores or supermarkets.



How do you insert a tampon?

You may be worried and nervous about using your first tampon. Talk to your mom or a friend who has used tampons. It is important to first learn how to use a tampon and then, just relax! The more you relax, the easier the insertion will be. When you are nervous, your muscles tense up, making insertion even harder. For your first time, you may want to try using a tampon when your menstrual flow is heavy; this should allow the tampon to glide in more easily. Choose the smallest size tampon for the first time. By following these simple guidelines, and those that come with your package of tampons, your first experience with tampons should be easy.

Sit or stand in a comfortable position. Some women prefer to place one leg on the toilet seat or tub, while others prefer to squat down. After you find a position that is most comfortable for you, hold the tampon with the fingers that you write with. Hold the middle of the tampon, at the spot where the smaller, inner tube inserts into the larger, outer tube. Make sure the string is visible and pointing away from your body.
With your other hand, open the labia (the folds of skin around the vaginal opening) and position the tampon in the vaginal opening. (See picture 1 below).
Gently push the tampon into the opening, aiming for the small of your back. Stop when your fingers touch your body and the applicator, or outer tube, is completely inside the vagina. (See picture 2 below).
Once the applicator or outer tube is inside of you, use your index finger to push the inner tube (the tube where the removal string is visible) through the outer tube. This pushes the tampon into the vagina.
Once the inner tube is all the way in, use your thumb and middle finger to remove the applicator or outer tube. (See picture 3 below). Make sure that the string hangs outside of the vaginal opening. Later, when you are ready to remove the tampon, hold the string and gently pull it downward until the entire tampon is out.




If the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted the tampon incorrectly or the tampon may not be placed far enough into the vagina. If this happens, just remove the tampon and start again with a new tampon. Remember that practice makes perfect. If you don't get it on the first try, your second try will most likely be successful. Instead of getting frustrated and giving up, relax and try again!



What if I still don't succeed?

If you don't succeed after several times, see your health care provider. It may be that you were born with a very small opening in your hymen and you can't insert tampons. This is true in only about 2% of teens, but it could be a problem.



A mirror is often helpful so that you can see where your vaginal opening is. Sometimes, even using a small amount of vaginal lubricant (K-Y Jelly) on the end of the tampon will help the first one glide in.



What is TSS?

You've probably heard of this disease before, and how it may be connected to tampon use. TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) is an infection that is very rare, but potentially dangerous. TSS can affect anyone, male or female. However, it occurs most frequently in young women who wear tampons. You will probably never get TSS, but it's good to know what the symptoms are and how to avoid putting yourself at risk.



Tampons themselves do not cause TSS. TSS is caused by bacteria called Staphylococcus aureus. When a tampon is left inside your vagina for too long, it creates a perfect environment for different types of bacteria, including Staphylococcus aureus, to grow. To avoid developing TSS, follow these guidelines when using tampons:

Change your tampons at least every 4-8 hours or more often if necessary.
Choose the correct tampon absorbency. Use smaller sized tampons when your flow is lighter. TSS occurs more often when super-absorbent tampons are used. Don't use these unless your menstrual flow is particularly heavy.
Alternate between pad and tampon use. You might want to use pads at night, and tampons in the daytime.
Wash your hands before inserting or taking out your tampon.
Don't use tampons to absorb anything other than your menstrual flow. Only insert a tampon once menstrual blood is present.
If you experience the following symptoms while wearing a tampon, remove the tampon, and contact your health care provider immediately! These symptoms may seem similar to the flu. If they occur while you are menstruating and wearing a tampon, they may signal TSS. Otherwise, it might mean that you have another infection. It is recommended that you see your health care provider regardless. Symptoms of TSS include:

Sudden high fever
A sunburn-like rash
Diarrhea
Dizziness, fainting, or lightheadedness
Vomiting

Answer 8

You can consult a doctor about taking a pill for skipping just ONE cycle. My sister does that when she has an important engagement or so.It does no harm. Cause even with a tampon you still have to go change and still hope no embarrassments occur and like you said it has you uncomfortable. Try my suggestion if you think its right for you will enjoy yourself more at your party.

Answer 9

It could be that you're not pushing it in far enough, you have to get it past the muscles, and then you shouldn't feel it-apart from sometimes the string is irritating. Other than that, can't think of anything else...I always found them pretty easy to use.

Answer 10

Try angling it slightly upwards and towards your back.
You really shouldn't feel it, so you probably are putting it in incorrectly.
Have you read the directions that came with them? They will help.
Remember, most girls have problems in the beginning. It takes practice. Don't give up!