Well ive been with this girl for about a month and we started having sex a few weeks ago...Well honestly shes kinda boring sexually...she doesnt really like too many positions...almost like she wants me on top of her all the time...she told me she has had an orgasms before but i havent been able to make her *** yet and this is strange for me because any girl ive ever been with sexually i have been able to make them ***... also shes not really into oral sex either and im a huge fan of that both giving and receiving...so basically our sex life is me and on top her then done...does anyone have any suggestions on how to spice things up or to get her into trying different things?? or is this something that will just come with time or am i stuck with a boring sex life as long as im with her??
2007-06-28 02:25:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yea sex isnt going to make or break the relationship...i really care about her...i just would like to make our sex as best as possible
2007-06-28 02:35:37 · update #1
ask her if shes atleast willing to try different things, and if she is, search online and look for somthing that shes more into.
or just dont have sex for a litlle while, and tease her, shell come around.
you can also be more romantic about it, dont just jump on top of her, make a situation where she would love to have sex.
good luck.
2007-06-28 02:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you sould take things slow. Since she's not as experience their might be a million different feeling that she's having and doesn't quite know that they mean to her or how she should go about expressing them. I am way more experience than my boyfriend i cetaintly have a higher sex drive, but I can not push him into doing something that he's not into yet... Just give her time, heck it's only been two weeks, she'll come around. And if not after a while she doesn't and you still feel this way, then let go and find some one else who is on the same pace as you are. But remember that there are some good things that you just have to wait for.
2016-05-21 22:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nto every girl is the same. Some are really sensitive and it is easier for them to have an orgasm. Others it is a lot harder. Have you tried talking to her about it? She will never know you are unhappy unless you say something. Going slow is also going to make things easier for her to change things up a bit. Don't pressure her or she will shut down. Let her take things as slow as she wants to. That will be better for you to never know when she will decide to. But let her know you need a little more and are willing to wait. But you can't change her and hopefully she cares for you enough to try new things. Take it slow, and if you are going to be unhappy in the relationship becasue of this then you shouldn't be in the relationship.
2007-06-28 02:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by skeys003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people really just dont like to explore things sexually. if that is really important to you, maybe you should find a more qualified girlfriend. but sex shouldnt make or break a relationship!
2007-06-28 02:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by crystal k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of having sex like they show in the pornos try to grind agaist her pelvis instead of going at it like a jackhammer. this will stimulate her clit and her vagina at the same time. have fun
2007-06-28 02:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jingius 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and if she cares then she would be open to try new things with you
2007-06-28 06:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time you have to understand the female feeling. if she don't feel confotable with position, you have to ask her,
2007-06-28 02:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would appear she isn't the one for you.
2007-06-28 02:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try porn movies.. hope it helps :)
2007-06-28 02:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋