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always look at the negatives about people rather then the postitive.. i mean come on.. cant people just enjoy life and not putdown others.. i wont say any names.. but still..

2007-06-28 01:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by Carrolyn <3 2 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

its sad.. i agree with bluedevil.. i mean think about it.. but dont you think that if one person changed then other people might catch on.. idk.. its jsut an idea.. and maybe its a crazy one..

2007-06-28 02:01:19 · update #1

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Are you not also "looking at the negatives about people" by asking the question?

Instead of focusing on the positives such as it being a tool that people use to make others aware of their own flaws, you choose to think to yourself "look at all these people whom I won't say names, how they aren't positive like... me."

2007-06-28 02:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by gaperdave 1 · 1 1

It is sad... It's because of the world we live in. Nobody's perfect, but some people can't accept that. People are pessimistic because that's what they've come to expect. Not many people are nice these days. The newspaper: Rarely is the front page "Man donates money to foundation!". It's so-and-so was murdered, more soldiers killed, robbery at this bank... The world is a negative place!

2007-06-28 08:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0 0

This is a easy question, most people are just not very social and hate people who are, all through time there has always been hate and paranoia, either because of race or religion, or personal beliefs, and even today this practice keeps hanging around, there is not much you can do about it, except try to keep your own personal feelings at the front of your mind , and when you meet people like this...who hate for no reason .......pity them..... for they are lost.

Peace.

----Duane

2007-06-28 13:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by duane b 3 · 0 0

It's human nature to always find fault with other people. To point out flaws or imperfections instead of what is beautiful inside a person, to point out failures instead of achievements or successes, and to point out the ugliness and weakness of a person instead of giving encouragement and hope. It is human nature to be often without contentment or satisfaction the reason why he is on the lookout for others with physical defects or shortcomings to make him appear better off than them.

2007-07-06 08:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0 0

Funny thing about human nature, I think we are soooo focused on the bad all the time. It's sad really.

2007-06-28 08:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 1 0

Judging by your previous answers and questions you seem like a really nice person, but I think, going by the last answer you left to one of my questions, you're being a little over sensitive today...

2007-06-28 10:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bultimus 4 · 0 1

people are sad creatures we focus on the bad things because we are driven by fear, fear of what might happen and fear of everything we don't want to happen and because we are driven by fear we focus on all that we fear all our worries problems and faults.

2007-06-28 09:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nevermind 3 · 0 0

You're right!

2007-06-28 10:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by UnderwaterTomato 3 · 0 0

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