can you move on all by yourself?

Question

you have noone . can you move on after being dropped by all?

Answer 1

Absolutely, life is to short to stay down get back up and make the best of life. You will find someone else.

Answer 2

Yes and no. You can move on, but we as humans are social beings and need other people. Your challenge if you have lost the important relationships in your life is to form new ones. Which is what moving on means. I say you can't do it "by yourself" because you need relationships in your life, and any relationship is a two-person project.

But also keep in mind that there are all kinds of love, and all of them have a place in our lives. The word "relationship" usually makes people think of romantic love, but there are also relationships between friends, family, colleagues, people and God, etc. You form a relationship with anyone you come across, just by being in contact with them, however briefly. You may affect them greatly or hardly at all, and vice-versa, and you may never know to what degree you have impacted their life. But, in some way, you have.

Answer 3

Have faith in yourself and your higher power and all is possible. Not only have I moved on but I know lots of others who have. Sometimes you feel like you have been dropped by all and the world seems to be crashing in on you -- I know that feeling. Get up and get out even if a walk in the mall or neighborhood. Staying secluded will not help. That is your first step. It can take a while but you will make it!! Again, have faith in yourself - build up your confidence and learn to love yourself again.

Answer 4

Deep down, we all move on "On our own."

Even if you have friends, they will do their best, but no one can really understand you better than you can. No one can help you, you have to make all the decisions for yourself.

Here's what happened to me:2001, my mother dies, 2002, I lost a job I'd had for 10 years, 2003, the girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with dumps me in public in front of her friends.

I was "in the suck." I fell apart.

Untimately, it was up to me too pull myself out of it. I did something I thought i could never do. I took a trip out to California (I'm in Florida) on my own. It gave me time to think and to experience the country.

Right now you mind is like a skipping CD, it just keeps playing the same thing over and over again. You have got to shake it up.

When you're down, experience something knew. Travel, go volunteer somewhere. Help out the SPCA, whatever. You need to get your energy flowing in a new direction.

Do you like movies? Watch the " The Shipping News." Watch "The Shawshank Redemption." Fill you head with the idea that no matter what happened, you can start again.

You can. My old life is gone. I mean there is just nothing left of the man I used to me. So what? I like the man I became. My new life is good. Sure, it's scary sometimes, but that's OK.

You are standing on the shore of an undiscoverd country, the shore of your new life. Pack your bag and get out there!

Joseph G.

Answer 5

this is a very close topic to me because I have. Two years ago my life was s hit. I got in my car and made a change. I drove to a place (1200 miles away) where I knew people were making money. I slept in my car for almost a month before I got my first paycheck. I did all that myself. No one helped me. I use to s hit in peoples back yard because thats all I had at 3 in the morning. I made $83,000 last year and will easily clear $100,000 this year in the oil fields of W. Texas. Anyone can change their life...it just takes balls.

Answer 6

What better opportunity one can have other than this , when all the strings attached to you are gone , you are on your on , only than you know what you are , you can decide independently what you want and where you want to go, you decide your goals and you and you only achieve them. Those who left you were never yours and those that you will make now you will decide weather they are worthy of being yours.

In our lives the day to day pulls and pushes of people around us retard our progress if they have negative energy for you, but once that negative energy is gone your real character comes out and you work at your real potential.

you are now like a boat in a choppy ocean, you can get out of it by sheer mental and physical strenght and sense of direction , the right direction.

Answer 7

If I were to truly be "dropped by all", it would be all the friends and loved ones I currently have. I could go on, on to a new town, a new life, on to make new friends and find new loved ones. You can always move on, but you can never go back. Don't dwell on the past, it's past. Remember the love you were lucky to have had, but let it go, you will be loved again.

Answer 8

Saint Augustus says that when you fall down, pick yourself up. I think we must all learn to pick ourselves up and move on if we are to have a chance at life..

Answer 9

yes.every one moves on in life.after all who can sit idle for long.even if we lost everything we can go in search again.this is the essence of living.

if u lost all ur loved ones,try making new loved ones.and this always work.be what you want others to be to you.keep smiling!!and cry when you feel like!

Answer 10

yes. you were on your own before that person came along, you can do it again. evn if you've gone straight from one relationship to another, there was a time when you were on your own. it's tough, but find something to occupy your time, a hobby or interest