i think I am the one causing this to be a problem. i feell like such an idiot because i can;t talk to this one girl and i can;t get close to her. i just need to know ow or get to know her more, but how? i think about her 24/7. i saw her today at the graduation and she was sooo pretty. i can;t get her out of my head, she is just stuck there. i know if she feels the same way for me then we can work things out, but is she feeling the same way for me? i mean she does say hi and stuff but i casn;t really make the convo go on because she is WORKING. and other people interup. its annoying. anyways im always shy around her. and i think she hates me and it makes me dsad to think that. i just want to get to know her more. and i think she has a boyfriend too. and i am really sad. she is the only in this world that would make me feel so much happier, becaus i am having my own problems right now. everybody tells me to talk to her. bt i don;t think its working. anyh other signals i could give her?
2007-06-27 23:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by jenniffer 06z 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Absolutely.
2007-06-27 23:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel for you, kiddo, I really do. I guess there are a couple of things you could do - invite her out for a movie, or maybe even lunch? Or just coffee. Open up the lines of communication and go from there. Start by continuing to be her friend and let this progress from there. It's not easy, granted, but these things take time.
Good luck.
2007-06-28 07:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Zarathustra 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The honest truth- You will never get this girl because you are way too insecure. So get over it please. Girls do not like insecure guys, it is a turn off. Maybe start working on yourself, personality etc. before you go after any girl. Martial arts is a good way to build self-confidence. Think about it.
2007-06-28 06:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by marie s 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't think you are an idiot.
i think you are just afraid of her reaction after telling her how you feel about it.
you must have some more self-confidence.
you can try to let her know what you feel through a friend of yours or a friend of her.
2007-06-28 09:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Persian Male 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm maybe u can like find somthing to like show here and be like omg guess what and just start a random conversation with her. or maybe u can pretend to be upset and in her good nature she will talk to you? lol idk maybe she see that u try to talk to her but when sum1 interups she see that u just give up on yalls conversation? idk just try and talk to her bring up a subject that u might can both talk about like for instance graduation? or get a friend to talk to her and get to know her maybe.
2007-06-28 08:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Puppet9481 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
too much thinking and not enough action....seriously you need to find time to have a proper chat...maybe wait for her after work or something. You will never know until you know....you know?
2007-06-28 06:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by coolred38 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are not an idiot. i repeat... you are not an idiot.
that is a normal behavior of both males and females who are attracted to another.
what you need to do is try something like this...REMEMBER:
IT IS MIND OVER MATTER. and this works, even though it sounds weird. it worked for one guy.
picture her as a non-attractive person. that's it!
you will be able to talk to her like she was just an
average girl.
:) aloha!
2007-06-28 06:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by hwngirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah really you are,better you must talk to her for the start of hi!theres nothing wrong saying hi!to everyone .then think it will be start you to make her communacate.so go on then.........
2007-06-28 06:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe u should print out what u have wrote and give it to her if u couldnt talk!
2007-06-28 08:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by bii 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look kid, make a move or never!
i am not kidding. get out the here and call her.
2007-06-28 06:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋