2007-06-27 23:03:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
this is a good one to answer we get mad because
1. we loved them
2. we hate it when they get the better of us
3. because they knew us & we cant lie to them
4. they hurt us in a way that we could never fathom as to why it hurts so much
2007-06-27 23:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dave B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel that we expect them to be what WE want them to be and when they aren't, we lash out at them.
I have learned to just accept the fact that you can't change them and to enjoy them for who they are.
If you find that hard to do, just avoid being around them as often. It will give you a greater appreciation for them.
2007-06-28 06:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by RRWoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz if we dislike some1 n something happens to them or they do something, we usually dont care coz they're like non of our biz, but if it is our dear one doing it then it will create a special type of feeling, either angriness, happiness anything of that sort coz we really do care for them.
2007-06-28 06:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we know that they will always be there for us...so I guess we feel safe about the aftermath when flipping out on people we know love us.
2007-06-28 06:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we feel safe venting our anger at/to loved ones. how safe/sane/foolish do you feel if you were to loose it in front of total strangers?
2007-06-28 06:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think all coolgals have the same problem.. ;-) .. anyways.. i think its cos v expect a lot frm them..
2007-06-28 06:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by coolgal12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them.........
2007-06-28 06:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by roula68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋