Ok, my girlfriend is the greatest thing anyone could ever ask for. She has always been there for me, always there to take care of me and has never stopped showing me unconditional love. Now I have done all the same for her except I haven't shown her all the attention that she wants or even deserves at times and until recently i didn't help her out around the house as much as I should have. She never complained but i could tell it bothered her. She has brought up marriage quite a few times and i wanted the same but was scared at the time. not sure why. we have been together for 2 1/2 years. A couple of weeks ago she had to go out of town for job training and was gone for 2 weeks, at the end of her time away she ended up kissing another guy and then instantly breaking into tears. She called me that night very upset and apologized over and over. I'm not even really upset about the kiss to be honest, but i did realize what I was about to lose. Any advice on working through this?
2007-06-27 21:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by somebody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start doing little things for her. bring her home some flowers, clean up for her, rent a movie and have a special night together, make her a romantic dinner, write her a heartfelt letter. Make her realize why your special and that you can be romantic and that you care enough to go out of your way and do these things.
2007-06-27 21:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a nice quiet restaurant and tell her exactly how you feel about her and let her know you are not perfect but you are willing make improvements on your relationship. Be as honest as possible and let her know you can really see yourself being married to her but you are scared a little bit. If she is not willing to open up while having this talk and work on her side of the relationship than you guys might want to think about moving on. But most likely she will enjoy your honesty and openess and things should be great for you guys
2007-06-28 04:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by daniel L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to take the plunge. Make the committment, and be considerate of her feelings too!! She sounds like a great girl!!
2007-06-28 04:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how much you love and treasure her, from what i see, it's still not too late to salvage this relationship. i believe she still loves you, put in a little bit more effort and she will fully whole-heartedly be yours again.
just try if you still want her, if it doesnt work, it's fine. tidy up your feelings and look for a better one.
Cheerssssssssssssss
2007-06-28 05:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by overseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if you love her and you want her then get busy and treat her the same make plans for the wedding and get moving and dont' look back.
2007-07-03 22:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to show her how much you do care & love her & it's very easy:
by asking her to be your wife i.e: ask her to marry you in a romantic way..
2007-06-28 04:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by fa2 H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋