My husband used to watch alot of porn and it started ruining our relationship after so many lies and ****. It drove me nuts and i left him a few times. now he is really sweet and he stopped being such an *** after we got married. did he finally grow up or is he playing head games?
2007-06-27 21:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you can answer that. You are the one that lives with him. Maybe the responsibility of being a husband has made him rethink things.
2007-06-27 21:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 01:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have finally realized how much it is bothering you, and now watches it discreetly so it doesn't bother you. Have you tried to watch it with him, or ask him why does he watch it so much. Or, try asking him if there's anything you can do to take his mind off all of that porn. This may give you guys more time in the bedroom, and him more time away from the TV!
2007-06-27 21:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Reason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read a good eBook about the problem, which is unfortunately in bad English. But I found the theory interesting: The author says that there are a lot of non-sexual reasons for consuming porn - see http://www.brocallo.net.tf .
2007-06-28 23:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by free download 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is your husband, so you might wanna give him the benefit of the doubt..but I would still check under the bed/pillow/nightstand/in the closet for as secret stash every once in a while aaaand watch out for suspicious behaviour.
2007-06-27 21:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not hve left those stuff..
but the gud thing to be seen is thta..hez interested more in u than in porn...since he decided to tke a U turn..doesnt matter ifthtz in real or..juz makin up.
anyhow...u shud appreciate his effort....
also..dont pest much on him..itz fine..itz physiology...let him watch...for awhile...like..u just cant lockup him..for dat...
allthough..might be u can bcme more sexier or mke 4 him..sex more pleasurable than ever b4..
mke urself luk more attractive.or sumthin...
allthough dnt wory...watchin porn is never sobad..
u juz might be overexpecting!!!
njoyur life..:)
2007-06-27 21:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just getting better at hiding his addiction. These types of problems usually require professional help to get over, so chances are he is just looking at it somewhere else where you wont catch him.
2007-06-27 21:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by helicopterjen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. You be his porn star and make him happy. He don't want to lose you. Keep him smiling.
Good Luck
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2007-06-27 21:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Why are you asking us? Go find out...you're married now, you should be able to ask him about these kinds of things.
2007-06-27 21:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha porn is a way of saying thank you to your self
2007-06-27 21:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by kurt c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋