What do you think I could do to let my mom know that I can look after a horse???PLEASE ANSWER!?

Question

I just asked a question about a half hour ago and some guy said I could work with horses in the summer, what do you think he meant?

Answer 1

Show her your responsible enough. I am trying to do that with a dog. I already have 2 horses. Please star this answer as a best answer. I need points!!!! Thanks!!!! Shianne

Answer 2

This is a very serious thing. First off, you've GOT to be sure you can look after a horse. Secondly, its the training.

Number one is initial research. Go over files on the internet on EVERYTHING about horses. Have a filter through articles, wierd cases, basics, tricks, everything. This will give you a good, strong background. Don't forget to look in books from the library and stuff like that.

Number two is going horse riding. This is when a connection is brought up between you and horses, where you learn first hand their behaviour, their relational patterns, their anatomy and all the rest. It also gets you experienced so you dont just do it all off the book, also known as, unexperienced.

After those two and after your mum has seen how well you can handle horses, the rest is up to you. The more you ride and prove yourself, not only with horses, but as a mature and responsible person your mom will come to see how you can do it. This will take time, however if you are keen enough and with the right determination, you can do anything.

Just make sure you know what you're doing!

Answer 3

First of all, if you are not able to pay for the upkeep of a horse (stabling, feed, shoeing, vet bills, tack, etc), and your parents are unwilling or unable to pay these costs, there's not a whole lot you can do to convince them.

If they are willing to shoulder the costs but are uncertain that you are ready for the responsibility of owning a horse, consider leasing a horse. Many riding schools and stables will lease horses either on a full-time (where you are their exclusive rider) or half-leases (where you share riding privileges with someone else or the stable) and it will give you a chance to see if you really have the time to devote to a horse. Owning a horse is a huge responsibility and they require a great deal of care and attention. It's not something that you can just drop if you lose interest or find that you don't have the time.

Work on showing your parents that you are a responsible person and are willing to take on the responsibilities and that it's not just a passing interest. I can't say that you will be able to change their minds, but you'll present a much better case than just going "Please, I want it!"

Answer 4

OK. Let's tackle the Mom question first.

It's in the everyday things, dear.

Do your chores without being asked - and without complaint or whining.
Try not to argue - if Mom or Dad says, "No." then that's it - no more discussion.
Don't play one parent off the other - you know what I mean.
Make friends that your parents would like, too. You know the kind, nice kids (both boys and girls) who are polite and respectful and honest.
When you go out with friends, volunteer information such as when, where, with whom, what you're doing and when you expect to get back home. All the information - don't sneak around after you go out thinking it's OK. It isn't.
Make the best grades you can in school. If you need a tutor - ask for one.
Make some life goals - you're not too young to make some plans for the future.

Perhaps after seeing you do these things for at least a year - your Mom will think you're mature enough to take care of a horse.

Answer 5

Volunteer your time at a horse stable as a helper. They may not let you work with the horses until you prove yourself, the same way that you have to prove yourself to your mom. It may take a while but be persistent. Most stables need help, even if it's sweeping up, watering an indoor riding arena, or watering buckets. Once you are always at the stable they will eventually either trust you, or get so busy with horses that they desire your help and are willing to teach you. I should know this is what I did with my free helpers at my stables. I loved having the extra help, especially an enthusiastic helper. Ask for some riding lessons in exchange for free help. Eventually you will be good enough to be a paid helper.
Once you establish yourself at the stable, have your mom visit you their to watch your riding lessons your determination and eagerness. Proving yourself and learning may take some time, but be patient if you are diligent you will win her over and learn what you need to to start with a horse of your own. Remember no matter how much learn you will always learn something new everyday of your life while owning and riding a horse. Horses are our teachers. Never say you know everything and you will suceed.

Answer 6

If your mum has said no to a horse maybe she cant afford to keep one, in Australia at the moment to feed 3 horses properley it costs around $400 per fortnight, and then theres the farriers, vets, dentist and other bits and pieces.

If thats not the issue maybe she's unsure you wont be dedicated enough and so like the guy said get a job at a stable in the summer holidays etc. You see too many kids losin ginterest in their ponies after a couple of months, not saying you will, but perhaps its your mothers concern.

Good luck.

Answer 7

Not sure, but working with horses would be agood idea - I reckon if you volunteer at a stableyard and do a full year - horrible winter too, do all the bad jobs as well as the good ones then your mom would see you are committed. If you are not prepared to do that then maybe you shouldn't have a horse. They are truly more work than pleasure !

Answer 8

That you could get a job at a stable. That is what i did and then my mom let me have a horse. I would tell your mom that you wan't to work in a barn so that you can see how i would take care of my horse. Hope this works

Answer 9

Most likely, he meant you should try to find a stable of some kind near you that will let you work there as a volunteer, helping to take care of the horses.

Answer 10

I used to board horses and they are a big responsibility. Let me get started. They have to have adequate acreage and proper fencing, sturdy enough to take a good kick every now and then and safe enough not to cause harm to the animal. You have to plant different grasses for summer and winter. And get out the tractor every now and then to spread the huge piles of manure out over the field. You must make sure they can't chomp down on different weeds and trees that will make them sick, some even poison. They must be fed everyday, sun, rain, or snow, and always have access to a fresh supply of water. Keeping stocks of grain can get expensive. You have to add corn and hay to their diet during winter months. They have to be wormed and vaccinated annually. They have to be washed and brushed to maintain a healthy mane and coat. And kept free of pests. Their shoes must be fitted properly and their hooves kept clipped. Muscles and joints must be inspected for any inflammation and injury. Not to mention proper care and use of tack and saddle. And they need a shelter where you can stall them up when need be. Which has to be stocked with fresh, clean hay. And proper training as well. A horse is very expensive to maintain. Summer is a very busy time for horses and great for learning experience. You should take months of training and learning of proper care of horses, their health, diets and routines. And like I mentioned above the proper use of equipment as well as riding and commands.

Answer 11

He means find a job at a stable where you can be around horses and muck out stalls, feed and water them, perhaps groom them, or even exercise them if you are an experienced enough rider. Try to involve yourself in horses before purchasing one. Join a breed club, take riding lessons...