we are 4 sisters and my mom is still her wife but her new girl friend is his secretor in his office;he has another one in another city,I have their film and photos but we(me and sisters) didn't tell him that we know this.but her new one is in our city,she is selfish to my mom and me and sisters.she wants to show us that we are not important to my dad.I hate my father but I can't let him do this to my mom.my mom knows this new story and she doesn't say anything like the last one(it's not finished yet)I want to delete this foolish and rude girl because of my mother,myself and my sisters.I need help please
2007-06-27 18:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by mahna 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
thanks for your help my friends.I can't speak to him because I 'm sure he will say "go to the hell" he hates his family and always tell my mom to leave her. he has a kind of personality disorder.maybe my mom loves her,maybe she stay with him just for us,I don't know,but I want to say "get lost" to thos girl.just for my wounded heart,for broken mom,just to do something.thanks.
2007-06-27 20:56:49 · update #1
I think that each of dad"s girlfriends deserve to know about each other. Once a cheater- always a cheater.
Mail copies of the "other girlfriend" to each other. The secretary will get pictures of the the one in the other city and the girlfriend in the other city will get pictures of the sectetary. Then stand back and let the chip fall where they may.
Why is your mother putting up with this behavior? If I was her I would seek the advice of a great lawyer and get a divorce from this "man" and be happy on my own!!
Hope this helps some.
2007-06-27 18:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you and your mom just got to learn to stand up and talk to your dad. Tell him you know about this and let him know how it makes you feel. Your mom is surely deeply hurt and perhaps the reason she's not really saying anything is because of you and your sisters. Perhaps she is still hoping that things will be back to normal somehow. But you need to confront your dad already before things get out of hand. YOu caN'T STAY quiet for the rest of your lives. Your just making yourself look like a fool. You just got to tell your dad. You just have to. Even better, if you talk to him as a family, I've gone through that too and its tough. But letting him know hoe you feel would make things somehow better atleast. Its important that you let him know. And one more thing, Pray, it's preachy but you'll be surprised on what prayers can do!
2007-06-28 02:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most adult men are set in their ways and will not listen to their kids or wife, and if your parents are in a marrige struggle and your father is seeing other women, then there is not much hope. When an adult male is tired of his marrige, he will find another mate and anyone before this new lover is obsolete. He will help take care of you, but as for your mother he will not care what she goes through. The only thing you can do is talk to him in privacy and ask him all you want to know. If your father is tired of your mom and wants another, then it will take alot of love and persuation to get him away from this new girl. Do your best and talk to him, and express your concerns. How he reacts and answers you is how you can tell what he is thinking. If he shows concern and cares what you say then there is hope he will come back or drop her and love your mom. If he reacts angry or annoyed and doesnt want to listen, then his mind is made up and your chances are low. Good luck.
2007-06-28 02:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by donald a 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think u should discuss things with your father, or else take help of some senior family member but i would suggest dont get ur mother into the discussion
2007-06-28 01:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by tahir s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad that he's the reason why you are going to grow up to be a man-hater and destory your trust in men. Tell him that he contributed another femnazi into the world. Hopefully you will scare him into being nice to you and your famaily.
2007-06-28 01:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by charming_imogen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your mom must tell to her husband (your father):
(everything you want for yourself
you must want for another people
and
everything you dont want for yourself
you dont must want for another people).
What kind of woman does he like?
Is your mom like to his girlfriend or not?
(mien , limb , morally ,....)
Im sorry for your father.
I think he isnt lover.
because woman isnt only limb.
2007-06-28 03:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ali from iran 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋