Ok, first off I am a lesbian; I live with my girlfriend in a house that we both rent. Next door to us lives our landlord’s son. He’s an alright guy but as of lately he’s been bizarre. He’s always outside and like always coming over and knocking on my door and inviting himself in. He hangs around for hours and makes me do stupid **** with him as half the time he is really drunk. Anyhow, lately he’s been talking about like his whole life story making sure to not leave even the most intimate detail out.
Now, my girlfriend is rarely how because her job is very demanding. He is over here everyday now and he’s always talking about sex and just makes statements to me that leads to believe he’d like a uh, closer relationship with me. Well, this just really pisses me off cuz like I want to tell the guy to just piss off and stop getting all drunk and drooling over me BUT he’s my neighbor and my landlord’s son. I mean really, what the heck am I to do?!?
2007-06-27 17:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, you don't understand. He fricken KNOWS I'm a lesbian and I have never done anything to make him think otherwise, he just has this way where he never shuts up and just kinda skips past what you say. He dont listen if he dont wanna hear it. This dude is creepy.
and I always find him in my yard, it really scares me.
2007-06-27 17:12:25 · update #1
A. Lock the door.
B. Be busy and tell him so.
C. Have him do projects around the house, with statements like, "This has to get done, so either quit your yammering and help me or go home and get out of my way."
D. Get a job that matches your partner's hours, so you both are out during similar times.
E. Tell him that you're glad to hear he's open to sex because your gay brother is looking for a new boyfriend, and you think the two of them just might hit it off.
F. Ask to borrow money from him.
G. Ask him if his mother knows his father is having an affair (or vice versa). Then pretend that you must have misunderstood the rumor.
H. Ask him to model a dress that you're trying to make.
I. Laugh at inappropriate times, when he's not being funny, and don't laugh when he tries to be funny.
J. Every time he comes over think of a reason to call his father (about something wrong with your house), and say, while you're on the phone, "Oh, do you want to talk with Junior? He's right here."
K. If all else fails, scream in a shrill and carrying voice, "Get the #&*@ out of my house!" You'll probably only have to do it once.
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2007-06-27 17:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he aware you are a lesbian? Maybe you should tell him.
If he's coming over drunk tell him you don't apreciate him visitng when drunk and in future you won't be letting him in / will kick him out if he comes over intoxicated.
Perhaps mention this to his father? Incase things go bad you may want to have addressed it with him first, just ring up and say you feel his son is overstepping the bounds and perhaps feels he can because his father is the landlord. Don't go into too much detail but the drunkeness is something you could address with the father and the inapropiateness of him inviting himself in.
Let both father and son know you are uncomfortable but not unreasonable and just want a bit of privacy. If it gets worse or doesn't stop then it may be a good idea to talk again to the father about the situation and consider involving the police.
2007-06-27 17:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop this. He's obviously interested in you and you need to discourage him. Complain to the landlord and ask him to make his son stop bothering you. Tell him you like where you live but you're starting to get scared. If the drunk walks in again and refuses to leave, call the police. There's nothing in your lease that says you have to take sexual harrassment like this.
2007-06-27 17:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is messed up.
Act like you're not home and hopefully stalker man will get the clue or well, he should already if you're a lesbian.
I don't know, keep talking about how much you like having sex with women instead of men,
2007-06-27 17:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you're taken, and you have a girlfriend who would BEAT HIM UP! =P
Tell him to leave you alone or you'll call the cops... cause that seems like a pretty creepy situation for anyone to be in... o.O
Good luck!
2007-06-27 17:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by FireRed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, the only way to stop him harassing you is to tell him you are not interested in a relationship with him.
2007-06-27 17:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by pete m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very creepy, I'd plan on moving.
2007-06-27 17:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by smurffffffffffff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report him to police for sexual harassment.
2007-06-27 17:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what to do and you are enjoying his visits and practically bragging about it on Y-answers
2007-06-27 17:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
ask him to sleep with you
2007-06-27 17:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋