No not that kind of hard! Jeesh!
Ok...to be so adamant about marriage...shouldn't you be more selective on how often you give up your goods too before marriage.
It seems like going on a binge of sex with lots of partners before marriage seems to be all the rage these days. For some reason, most people think this is cool way to live it up because you won't be able to do these things once married.
But doesn’t this defeat the whole purpose of the whole marriage and till death vows?
Read this one for more insight:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnK4LRrGcsse44badLC_Lavty6IX?qid=20070626231957AAn6qmO
Makes you think just a little don’t it?
So please…no more of this “take vows serious talks” unless you were one that didn’t sleep around OK?
Or if you did have multiple lovers…at least did it with a little class.
2007-06-27 16:20:40 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey "me" that was funny...i gave you a thumbs up.
2007-06-27 16:39:28 · update #1
I don't give up 'my goods' I am a respectable woman with and impeccable reputation and strong morals. I am getting tired of you bashing women and assuming we're all easy with no life guidelines.
You hate women, I would not be surprised if you'd hate your own mother. Actually you fit perfectly into the 'serial killer/rapist' profile. You're pathetic.
2007-06-27 16:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Or should you say " Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
Marriage means commitment to one partner- regardless of what (or who!) came before.
It is the hope of forever after, the belief that you can and will work together to create a strong union as partners. Any previous experiences have made you who you are today, and knowledge is power!
So get off your moral soap box! If you aren't happy with your lovers past, then walk away. Find someone perfect and untouched- and boring! It sounds like you need that control.
2007-06-27 16:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The premiscuous behavior binge you are refering to is new to me. But I am sure that this is done by guys as well. I think that society has taken sex and has made it to casual. They have stripped it of all the passion, excitement and purpose. And sex has been detatched from love even. I am married now but I dont mind saying that I had 2 lovers before my husband. Before I married I discussed this with him and although he said it did not matter, I think he felt more at ease knowing of my past. I was a virgin when I met him as a friend and he was there as a friend throughout my 2 relationships. I can not say the same for him, but I love him through trial and error. I trust that he was honest with me about his past. We have a good marriage and love life. That is because the past is the past and love between us two is the now.
2007-06-27 16:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different. I personally waited till I had a ring on my finger and there are lots of women out there that don't sleep around. More than not. That's why only a few women get the title of slut. Not most of us. So what is the point of your whole lecture?
2007-06-27 19:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so how in the h*ll is vegetarianism and marriage the same thing?!? I understood the whole point you were trying to get across but come on that is just stupid. good luck on the beef binge, go shove a carrot up your @ss
2007-06-27 16:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did have sex before marrage but It was because I really cared for who I was with and believed it would be more not just because. my marrage to my hubby and the vow we took are very important and very real. EVERYONE makes mistakes we are human not perfect and God know and understand this.
2007-06-27 16:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people may think they sleep around because they "won't be able to do it after marriage." truth is, MANY people do it after marriage! this is just an excuse for all the whores out there. other than that, i really don't know what your question was! haha.
2007-06-27 16:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God Flavio - you are SUCH a loser
Don't even entertain this guy. He posts **** like this all the time to get attention. Truth is he wasn't man enough to keep his woman from walking out on him. Now he spends his time posting questions just for shock value.
2007-06-27 16:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW Flavio what happend to the broken English? Wow you took English classes lmao
2007-06-27 16:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Or if you did have multiple lovers…at least did it with a little class." ..........what the hell does that mean?
i hope you're taking your own advice and not being a manwhore. in fact, i expect you to be a virgin because surely, you're not a pot trying to call the kettle black. it's so easy to sit and judge women but if you're sleeping around, then you're no better.
2007-06-27 16:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by t g 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋