2007-06-27 15:54:02 · 21 answers · asked by kadee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple. They don't want to believe it and upset their life, or in spite of it they may still love their husband anyway. I am not defending the guy, but it could still be a comfortable or even rewarding marriage for her. Even though he cheats on her, in other ways he may treat her well. Maybe out of guilt he could treat her really well. There could also be money issues, or maybe for the sake of the kids. It is not such a clear cut issue for some women as it is for others.
2007-06-27 16:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Don't Wanna Die 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't just women, it's everyone. Many times you'll find people that are the first to know AND the last to know, because they ignore.
As Neil Sedaka put it so succinctly in his song - breaking up is hard to do. It's painful. If you ignore it, you aren't compelled to make a decision or go through the pain of a break up. There are so many people that stay in bad relationships, because they don't want to go through the hurt and trouble of starting over.
It's for the same reason that people cheat rather than breaking it off first.
2007-06-27 23:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by TiredMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find that women that stay or choose not to believe there man is cheating falls under one of these categories.
A. He has a lot of money.
B. He's hung like the Jollygreen Giant
C. She's to scared to do anything about it.
2007-06-27 22:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word for it "Denial". Sometimes you just don't want to believe how things are in reality. Here you have this guy that you are so in love with playing you. And you are giving your all in the relationship. Relationships are risky investments. That's why you must take your time and do your best to find out just what (or who) your investing in.
2007-06-27 22:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kadee, My dear I am very sorry, I am a man and I ignored clues about my wife also ! But who would have thought ? Hon Jesus loves you and so do I ! It will get better, I hope !
2007-06-27 23:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are weak and even though the evidence is there in black and white they either refuse to believe it because they still wanna be with the jerk or they re stupid enough to believe they will never find another man that will want them ?
2007-06-27 22:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Denial. It's strong. Everyone (men and women) lots of times want absolute proof.
2007-06-27 22:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want it to be true...and they don't want to believe it, so they hold out until they know 100% for sure.
I know that sucks, but that's what seems to be the case. I guess ignorance is bliss.
2007-06-27 23:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause in a way they are afraid of knowing... they'll have to make tough decisions. Also, it's hard on the little ol' heart.
2007-06-27 22:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by nasar5@sbcglobal.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason kids hide under their blankets when they're scared of something. If they close their eyes, it's not really there.
2007-06-27 22:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by GrnEyedBrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋