How many of you have been in love? I know that many people think they have been and they more than likely have. I currently am and everything goes okay for the most part but then we get into our fights and my fiance' tells me that he's tired of dealing with me and that he just wants me gone most of the time. I know that he doesn't mean it because a few hours later he says he's sorry and that he doesn't want to lose me but I don't know what to believe. The other day I was messing with his phone and hit a wrong button and he had a couple text messages from another girl on there. I said something to him and he said that she's just a friend, I want to believe him more than anything because I love him so much but I don't know. There haven't been anymore so it makes me want to believe him. Does anyone have any idea/opinions on why love can't just be easy?
2007-06-27 14:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Halloween
Love can't be easy because people are involved. Anything people are involved in is messy. He is displaying classic passive-aggressive behavior & I think he probably really does want you gone. I was in the same situation once. You didn't mess around & hit the wrong button, most likely you meant to hit that button & you saw what you wanted to see; another woman texting your man. I don't know how you could accidentally hit the text message button - really. If there aren't anymore text messages it's cos he deletes them when he reads them now because he knows you are looking. Look up passive-aggressive behavior & see if you don't find your boyfriend's behavior there. I don't like to be so negative or sound harsh, but there's a lot he's telling you with his behavior & attitude. Move on & find someone who appreciates you & is open with you - you deserve it!
2007-06-28 10:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we all have so many expectations.
If you think he is cheating, you have already lost trust, which, for many, is a big part of a good relationship.
Either be OK with his having another girl, or find a man you can trust.
Also, see if you can schedule some alone time with his cel-she is probably texting him there, now.
2007-06-27 21:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by diana f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If love was easy ppl would take it for granted and wouldn't cherish it like its supposed to be.
U sound like you're in a very unfortunate relationship tho, and i feel for u. Sounds like u definately have your hands full...
Just remember, ppl are like fabrics; some are silk and some are flannel. U have to be careful which ones u try to sew together.
2007-06-27 21:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know.......
Love cannot be easy. But sometimes u need to learn something from ur life.
So..um. It's up to u sweety don't ask here. Follow ur heart
2007-06-28 00:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is very complicated. You need to learn to trust each other!
2007-06-27 21:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were easy it would not be worth anything
2007-06-29 20:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋