live with someone first before you marry them? Do you think everyone should just to get to know that person all the way around before making the commitment of marriage?
2007-06-27 13:59:12 · 16 answers · asked by Lea 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nothing can prepare you for life with someone unless you have lived with them. You don't really get the whole picture of someone until you see how they live. Some of the day to day average stuff folks will do could push your buttons the wrong way. Been there and done that. Never lived with the girl I married. Didn't last very long. Never married after that but I've lived with a few women and let me tell you I like living alone a whole lot more.
2007-06-27 14:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by PuckDat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've seen couples live together for years and then get married and divorced. You should know a person all the way around before living with them. If you live with that person is is a committment like marriage. The only thing missing is the legal stuff.
2007-06-27 21:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that is hard I would want to know the person before I marry him because what if he does things I couldn't handle but I really don't think I should live with someone before I'm married to them so I wouldn't live with them
2007-06-27 21:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chaos 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my ex-husband for a year before we got married. He was a different person when we returned from the honeymoon! No more splitting the chores, no more saying "do you mind if I head out with the guys tonight" he would just go. (Just a few examples)
So I don't think it is a guarantee of knowing someone if you live with them first! Just seeing how they live on their own should be a good indicator of sloppiness or dependence.
2007-06-27 21:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should know the person completely. But I don't believe you should live with someone before you marry them.
2007-06-28 05:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by soapqueen168 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no.............
i've never lived with a man and dont know too many that have unless they were married.
as a matter of fact, my husband and i were married for several months before we even moved in together.
and three years later, he still has stuff at the 'other house'.
(my mom passed right before the wedding and i decided i couldn't leave my elderly father alone, so he moved in with me. wasn't difficult, our homes are three blocks apart.)
2007-06-27 21:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by slkrchck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my husband before we were married. I think it was a good idea :)
2007-06-27 21:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by good gollum 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if its like 3 months then the first but if its over a year the second one
2007-06-27 21:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by <3<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I ever were to consider marriage living together beforehand would be the absolute smartest thing to do
2007-06-27 21:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've found that the best solution is to live two doors down. Can't live with 'em? Can't live without 'em? Live near 'em.
2007-06-27 21:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋