some people say that they met a "significant other" by meeting that person at a certain time at a place and was also never planned and was never unexpected. From this, you and your"significant other can possibally for EXAMPLE: marry.
However, if you didnt meet that peson in the first place and decided to go somewhere else you couldve still be single or doing other things for your future/career. So how can i make the best out of my future and make every second count. How would i make the best of life?
2007-06-27 12:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Stop perseverating on causality and make decisions that are ethical, logical, and move closer to your defined life goals.
2007-06-27 12:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by wlteria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you just gave me a headache... But as for your question, just live your life to the fullest. Do the things you want to do. Don't put yourself in a situation where you know you will look back on that moment in time and go "what if...?" and regret doing something or not doing something. People do this every day. They limit themselves because of fears, jobs, ect. If you want to be a lawer and live out your life at the office, then go for it. If you want to be an artist and travel the world and be known to many, go for it. Nothing is impossible once you set your mind to it (not to sound like a parent here...). Make yourself happy and the money, love, and everything else will follow.
Don't limit yourself in what you do in life. Go after goals that you want and keep moving forward. If an oportunity for something presents itself, take it. Even if it doesn't seem very big, bigger things will follow soon after. Don't be afraid to try new things. Even if they don't seem so great to you at first you may wind up liking them. Meet new people. Everyone has something to offer. And keep growing as a person so you don't get stuck in one of those daily lives where you get up and do the same thing day after day after day.
~*~FirEdhel~*~
2007-06-27 19:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by FirEdhel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is true and it is hard to influence a lot of it. Much more of our lives are influenced and even determined by somewhat random events than we can bear to think about.
The area where we do have some control is in the way we conduct ourselves. That is how you can play the odds. There is no way to live that guarantees much of anything, bu certain ways of living certainly turn the odds more in a direction you'd like. Being kind to others, taking good care of yourself, living a life of balance, engaging in life fully, learning how to embrace the present moment are all ways that tend to make lives go better. They also make it more likely that you'll run into opportunities like the person you want to marry.
2007-06-27 20:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you will consider this poorly, but my advice would be something along the lines of "stop trying to control your life experience", but rather just let it unfold. Stuff, good and bad, insignificant and profound, life-changing and innocuous is going to present itself before you each and every day. You may meet the 'perfect' life mate, and then again you may not...It truly does not matter...If you do, deep inside you (and they) will know...just don't 'push it' out of 'neediness.' Because if you do. down the road it will prove itself as ill-fitted and fall apart.
Make every second count by being personally 'alive' and simply being yourself...If you just limit yourself to that goal, everything else will naturally fall into place. No 'airs', no 'needs', etc. In other words, simply let your life and experiences unfold without trying to dictate a pre-conceived result. I realize that this may strike you as counter-intuitive, but natural IS best. Blessings....
2007-06-27 19:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Stevie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These words of wisdom are from Buddha, and speak directly to your heart's concern:
"The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly."
Instead of focusing on what might or might not happen in the future, or potential opportunities missed in the past, simply live with vigor and happiness today. When you add up all of these today's, you will have a life with an equally beautiful past, present, and future. :)
2007-06-27 19:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by WisdomAngel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Recognize conflicting priorities.
2. Resolve those conflicts.
When you resolve your inner conflict, you life automatically changes.
3. Clarifying what is important to you is crucial to determining your path. Who you surround yourself with is what you life will become.
Career interferes with relationships. Relationships interferes with careers. You can do one thing well, or both things less than well. You have a choice to make.
2007-06-27 21:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you're worrying too much.
Let yourself have fun in life. Naturally you have to do the necessary stuff, like work and study and being a good person and attracting a spouse, but let yourself have fun, too.
2007-06-27 19:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember two key things...
1.) You reap what you sow
2.) You get out of life what you put into it
you choose the cliche but it's so true.
2007-06-27 19:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by LuvinLos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live a Christian life. Life will go on forever if you do.
2007-06-27 19:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by NFrancis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ,i have never met a person who thought it wasnt strange to forget everytyign that has ever happened in your life
2007-06-27 19:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋