Iike I said I REALLY want to finger myself,bc somebody told me if you do that then sex the first time will be easier.I have NO idea what to do...and the thought of it kinda freaks me out. Any suggestions?
2007-06-27 09:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your friend is suggesting that inserting your finger into your vagina will help to loosen the hymen and/or partially tear it before intercourse. This may or may not work. And as an FYI, many girls today have their hymens torn by extreme physical activity, a sharp fall to their backside, or tampon usage, so hymen discomfort during sex may or may not occur.
Frankly, if you're interested in doing this in order to become more sexually experienced, sticking your fingers into your vagina won't typically help you reach sexual orgasm. Try masturbation and stimulation of your clitoris.
2007-06-27 09:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 8⤊ 2⤋
No use repeating what everyone else said, but look really deep into what Lisa M, Mlgable, Eliay, Catsmeowjrk2000, and Brutlly Honest had to say. It seems to me you are doing this for the wrong reasons. Be patient, everything will come in its own time. you are not the only one who has gone through this phase. You will be OK, just be patient and don't let others bad influence your own personnal dicisions. Be careful and take life slow. Good Luck
2007-06-27 17:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by jessejamesthegreat 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First take a hand mirror and a female diagram off the web and learn to identify all of your female body parts. Try rubbing your clitoris for a while and learn what feels good and what makes you orgasm. Fingering will not make sex easier and to this you simply insert a couple fingers into the vagina and do what pleases you.
2007-06-27 16:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If this is a serious question, you don't need to do "anything" to get yourself ready for sex. It will happen and it will happen the way nature intended - don't go sticking anything "up there" - you a: don't want to introduce germs or bacteria (I mean, a normal tampon is fine) and b: you don't want to hurt anything either.
Plus, can I be honest, probably if you are making out with someone - they will do the "fingering". I'm making a guess here but if you don't know about fingering or what to do, you might be too young to even THINK about having sex. Try to think twice maybe???
2007-06-27 16:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
yeah no matter what sex will be uncomfortable for the first couple of times, if the idea of masturbating freaks you out then you probably shouldn't do it, try getting yourself excited and if it happens it happens, how old are you anyway?
2007-06-27 16:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by lisa 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Just do whatever feels good.
2007-06-27 16:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
no matter what your first tiime is still gonna hurt. So is what it is
2007-06-27 16:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by eljay 2 · 2⤊ 6⤋
ummm do what you want, dont listen to whoever said that.
2007-06-27 16:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by gabi 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
experiment
2007-06-27 16:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
wow
2007-06-27 16:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kristy C 1 · 4⤊ 8⤋