Im really insecure about a lot of things like my appearance and the way I act when I'm around other people. I always feel like I don't fit in, I won't be accepted and that everyone's better than me. I have a very low self esteem because I'm really skinny. And I have very little confidence, especially at school. What can I do about it? How do I stop being so insecure?
2007-06-27 08:09:46 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe stop caring what other people feel so much?
2007-06-27 08:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all takes time and practice.You have to build your self esteem and know that you can do this.Start out little by little read fashion books and create your own style just jump right in a conversation and get you 2 sense in,try to talk to people little by little.Strike up the conversation.You cant always worry what others think which is tough it is normal to worry that you might say something stupid or feel like you don't fit in but you fit in just like anyone else does.Not everyone is going to like you and you just have to learn to accept it I am not saying it is easy but with practice it can be learned.All you can do is try to accept that they don't agree with you or may not like you for some reason but that is an issue they have their self not your issue.Some personalities just click and I am for sure someone will click with you.Just because you may not agree or get along with someone 24/7 doesn't mean you cant be civil to each other some just choose to be immature and never grow up.Try to take pride in yourself and just step out there,ya there will be times when you might have a bad day but you will have good days.I
2007-06-27 08:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, the best thing to do is remember that we ALL have insecurities. Just be yourself, have fun and remember that no matter what people say or do it ultimately comes down to what you think of yourself.
2007-06-27 08:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by KIDDY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity is the hardest thing to get over, you would always think that other people is better than u. that you are no good...
but have you looked at yourself lately??? have you not seen yourself that you also have the positive side?? did you know that the olsen twins are killing themselves just to get thin. and others starv themself just not to get fat, and you aleready have that, and you think your lowsy??
what you could do is to believe in yourself rather than believing what other people say...
you have to love yourself and learn to boost that ego.
nobody can help you raher than youself...
your question is sooo easy even a 9 year old kid can answer that...
2007-06-27 08:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really the answer is reliance on God. He can show you HOW to overcome your insecurities if you ask him and patiently wait for his answer.
Just give all your worries to God...he will solve it for you.
Pray for strength...pray your heart out.. your life will change for the better :)
2007-06-27 08:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*kills you.
joking hehe. you dont study because you're afraid you'll still fail. face your fears, it'll be worth it.
2007-06-27 08:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋