me and my girlfriend resently decided to take a break. i dont agree with it but she wanted to so i said fine. wat is the best thing for me to do, give her all the space in the world or try to get back w/ her. is there a certain time i should wait before trying to get back together w/ her. i do truely love this girl and i think that she still loves me. any help would be great
2007-06-27 08:09:10 · 3 answers · asked by gteeters44 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ask her how long she wants you to wait before getting back in touch and discussing the situation. Ask, "Is it okay if I call you once a week? " or something like that. Don't crowd her, but make arrangements to reassess the situation at regular intervals so she knows you're still interested and you know what the heck is going on. Or ask her to call you once a week to chat and let you know the status of her feelings. If she doesn't call as arranged, that's a clear message that she was just letting you down slowly and really wants to end things rather than taking a break.
2007-06-28 08:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does get back with you, it will be all up to her...trying to convince her will just make things worse...move on, and start things up with other girls (as if you don't even care wether she knows or not), and she might freak out and wanna get back with you.
If she does, don't change the attitude that got her there in the first place
2007-06-27 15:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by sstepenk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something set it free. If it comes back, it was meant to be.
An old saying that some adhere to. I think it sucks personally, but it makes sense.
How old are you? If you are anywhere in your teens, I would say move on. There are plenty of others out there for you. It will no doublt break your heart, but you will survive.
Hang in there.
2007-06-27 15:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by swissrmeman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋