Hi. Me and my gf, v both want to hv unprotected sex. pls tel me which days of her cycle wud b 100% safe or other 'sure' ways to prevent d pregnancy. hw much safe r the next few days after her 5days menses. wud emergency pill help 2 d safety?
2007-06-27 07:47:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if you don't want a baby don't have unprotected sex.
you sound too young to be a father so don't have unprotected sex until you want to be one.
2007-06-27 07:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by mender_bender2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off please learn how to spell or type or whatever your problem is cause this question is sooooo hard to read second if you don't want a child then don't have unprotected sex, its not the only risk there are also all kinds of STI out there that don't need to be spread around! But to answer your question which I do beyond my better judgment is the best days are days 1-7(she would have her period, so blood best not bother you) and then days 23-28 (just before she gets her period again) BUT I CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH SHE CAN STILL GET PREGNANT EVEN THEN!! Get her on the pill and after a month or two if your both STI free consider having unprotected sex, that's the best method for not getting unwantedly pregnant!
2007-06-27 14:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Momma B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi- Generally 1st 10 days and last 10 days of cycle are safe for having unprotected relations. But it is never 100%. I would suggest use a condom or you could use Today foaming tablets to be placed in the vagina 15 minutes before relations. Emergency pills is for occasional mishaps only.
2007-06-28 12:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by niti99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking a huge chance. A young girl's menstrual cycle is not regular yet and the chances of her falling pregnant are huge. Think about the innocent life you'll be bringing into this world or if you insist on doing this, at least let her use birth control pills for 3 months before you try. However, being on pills that alter your hormones at such a young age is not healthy.
2007-06-27 15:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by CelesteMoone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont wanna know how many people try to use natural fertility (avoiding sex around fertile time), the pull out method etc and end up with a baby. she needs to go on the pill, get an IUD or continue using condoms if she doesnt want to fall pregnant.
Never use the emergency pill as contraceptive, theyre only there for emergencies, theres much safer long term use contraception out there.
she should talk to her doctor to find out whats best for her.
2007-06-27 14:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be so worried about the ''getting pregnant", part
of the ''unprotected sexual intimacy", as I would be, worried,
about the Diseases, that are currently, in circulation.
When you contract any Genital Disease, some of them,
ARE NOT CURABLE, AND THEN ''YOU ARE FORCED
TO LIVE...WITH THEM...FOR THE ..REST OF YOUR LIFE.
And the sad thing is, THE DISEASE, WHICH IS INCURABLE
WILL SLOWLY CAUSE DECREASING IN THE PROPER
FUNCTION OF THE BODY.
"Performing in an intimacy situation, can be dangerous,
should you not be properly acquainted with that person,
and KNOW FOR SURE, that they do not ''possess'' a
"CONTAGIOUS'' Disease.
If I possessed a title, of any type of Medical Title, or Pastor,
or Counselor, I would say: STAY AWAY FROM THE DANG-
ERS OF ''UNSAFE SEX'', FOR YOUR OWN WELL BEING.
2007-06-27 15:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Too Funny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having unprotected sex...then you and your gf shouldn't be suprised that one day she will be pregnant! There our no safer days then others...sex w/out protection is taking a chance on pregnancy....if you do not want a baby...use a condom...put her on the pill...use something! You are going to create a life and most likely destroy it seeing how selfish you are being already.....take precaution!
2007-06-27 15:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by oOoLaLaiTzSina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what there are these two letters which you must always remember before you act,s s.safe & safer .safe is when you are using the condom,safer is when you are on emergency pills and staff and maid you there are not really 100% safe coz sometimes there help & sometimes there dont.
2007-06-27 16:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by ETin the area 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get on the pill and if she does end up pregnant, don't be ignorant and abort the baby, if you think you're old enough to have unprotected sex, then you need to take the responsibility of having and raising that child if need be!
2007-06-27 14:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by KBoj14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Raju. youre not becoming gentleman nowdays.
why man why??? why do you need to do this.
you are spoiling the indian culture like this both of you. this is no good for both of you. use condoms instead. If you think ure bold enough to carryon then ok!!!
what is the problem with that girl of yours too i don't know. Please its not even culture, but some human sense. Don't loose your patience and wait for the right moment. If suppose any of you develop symptoms of AIDS then ???? get tested before dingdong. other wise>>>> ***** in the well.
Mister Cant you wait until u marry her. Ek ladki ki zindagi mat barbaad karo aur na apni, khud ko kabhi maaf nahi kar paoge mister.... thoda intezaaar karo.. dheeraj rakho raaju. phir dekhna kitna maja aaayega.
are raaju tumhare daant to motiyo ki tarah chamak rahe hai, daabur ka laal dant manjan istemaal karte ho kya???
hihihi...
kidding.. but at least you should not kid with urself man...
just grow up your thoughts and be wise...
Gudfuck.
2007-06-27 15:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by kacchhe_ka_qaidi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be good, than use condoms, there is NO WAY to be 100% sure that it won't happen. The only days that are critical is when she is ovulating which usually happens the 14th and 15th day after the FIRST day of her period. But again, guys be careful...
Good luck
2007-06-27 14:53:12 · answer #11 · answered by johanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋