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There is this girl who used to be my friend and she was going out w/ this guy who was obviously using her because he was asking her for sex. She did some sexual things with him and she thought he liked her. I tried to help her so i told my cousin who was close friends with her to talk to her (because i didnt think she would listen to me) and tell her that she is better than that. Well my cousin did more than just give her advice she told her mom and now the girl hates me. By the way this happened 3 years ago and lately ive been seeing her a lot lately and everytime i see her i run i hide because i know she probably just wants to yell and scream at me. After her mom found out we became very distant and havent talked since. how can i get over this?

2007-06-27 07:00:29 · 12 answers · asked by Kayla J 4 in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

Forget it - she is out of your life. Ignore her presence. If she gives you any grief jsut look at her and walk away. Shame but that is how it is.

2007-06-27 07:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0 0

Even though it didn't turn out the way you intended your heart was in the right place and hopefully when your cousin talked to her mom she put a stop to the situation so it was corrected and ended. Your friend may be angry that her mother found out what was going on and she may feel you are responsible for that but face up to her and tell her you only wanted what was best for her and when you asked your cousin to intervene you didn't think she would go to your friend's mom and that you are sorry that that happened but you were concerned about her, even if you two cannot reestablish a friendship she should know what your intentions were. Good luck and God Bless.

2007-06-27 07:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0 0

You really just need to confront her. Don't run away because that won't solve the problem. What I would do is just tell her that you have to talk (in person) and if she doesn't want to then just say what you have to say. Tell her you're sorry that it got so out of hand but you really were just trying to help her by telling your cousin, and tell her that you understand if she doesn't want to be best friends or anything like that but you just want to clear things up with her so that you can have a chance at getting along. You really shouldn't hide from this though.

2007-06-27 07:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by whaddyaknow? 4 · 0 0

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2016-10-03 05:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Fear is a good thing. It can keep you out of dangerous situations and places. BUT, if you let fear rule you then that`s another thing altogether. Courage CAN be hard but if you let fear get to be a habit then you`ll never know courage again - EVER !. Three years is a long time, you DON`T know how she feels, do you ?. Go talk to her and explain or you may find that running has become a habit that you`ll do for the rest of your life. Good luck.

2007-06-27 07:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hondaman 3 · 0 0

Don't run and hide. You did what you thought was right, and your cousin did even better. Seriously, you may have saved that girl's future. If not, then it is not your fault she's an idiot. You can't run away from all your probllems. Stand tall. Be proud. And ignore her. Who cares if she yells at you? Her loss.

2007-06-27 07:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0 0

in order to get past this you must talk to her, by now she probably isn't even with this guy has probably let it blow over, you need to let her know what happened and how you feel, its quite possible that she'll forgive you for what she thought was betrayal and you can have a chance to be friends with her agian, but to run away from your problem will never solve anything

2007-06-27 07:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by com5t 2 · 0 0

Sigh...sometimes we have to do the things we have to do to set things right..and if she is your close friend, and you cared that much to try and help her. she must be worth trying to set things right again., hold your ground, and be strong. Next time you see her relax, and see what happens but. Don’t run away, things need to be set right, if she yells just take it in easily. Don’t fight back too much. Because she will thank you sooo much one day for saving her. Yes ^u^ you didn’t the right thing for acting on this, and have help. God has it under control. But don’t worry, but you do need to set things right O.O don’t worry you can do it ^u^!
God bless

2007-06-27 07:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Abrade 3 · 0 0

you did what you thought was best at time. the next time you see her, don't run. stand your ground, if you get yelled at, then you get yelled at. when friend has a problem, don't go running to anyone else but that friend, if you're wanting to talk. most folks don't like it when you tell someone else, it's too much like being a tattle tale.

2007-06-27 07:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by sred 4 · 0 0

3 years wow. You need to say. Im sorry everything got out of hand and be done with it. Live Love and be Happy!

2007-06-27 07:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by GB 2 · 0 0

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