Well my family mostly my dad and brother are stressing me to get a girlfriend, but I dont like girls and they dont know that yet. Anyways I need some way to have them stop bugging me about getting a girlfriend with out comming out to them that im gay....cause im not ready yet. Thanks for the help.
2007-06-27 05:50:29 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Jesse♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't let them get you down. My sister is 15 and she has NEVER had any relationships in her whole life. Just say this: "I'm not interested in dating, and I don't feel that I need a girlfriend. I'm happy the way I am." And don't worry about the way they think of your orientation, it's their problem not yours. In fact...
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I might be able to help you out.
2007-06-27 06:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Amber F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you'd rather focus on other aspects of your life right now (i.e. career, education, personal well-being, etc.) rather than have a girlfriend. Just let them know that you're not ready for any commitment and want to focus your energy elsewhere. Good luck. But you do know that you will have to come out sooner or later.
2007-06-27 12:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is merely a suggestion but if you're not ready to come out yet, do you have a female friend that would pretend to be your girlfriend in front of your dad?
2007-06-27 18:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by For Da Be Dan- Liza p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesse, they might be bugging you to get a girlfriend because there is a sneaking suspicion that you are in fact gay. If that makes them nervous they might be pushing you in the other direction. If you don't want to tell them yet, that's fine. that will happen when it's time. i suggest you say you aren't interested in dating right now and you have other things to focus on.
Good luck Jesse.
2007-06-27 13:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by imsomarinky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found out I was gay at 14. I told my family when I turned 15. Everyone couldn't take it.
They wanted me to get a GF too, but it got to the point where I was fuming. So...My dad asked "Any girlfriends?" and I rolled my eyes and replied:
"No, but there's this boy." Well...don't do that.
Thats a no no.
2007-06-27 12:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't feel ready for dating right now, and when you are, you will let them know. You don't even need to mention anything about girls. Just stick with not being ready to date.
2007-06-27 12:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a new guy friend and tell them u dont have time for a girlfriend or get a girlfriend then break up with her and tell then she broke up with u and ur not ready for a relationship...but that would be really mean..
2007-06-27 12:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly. Use that. "Im not ready Yet" As a girlfriend excuse :]
2007-06-27 12:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jaybabiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your closest f** hag and have her pretend that you guys are dating. If you don't have any f** hags, then find one! This is gonna be about the only way you can hide this. Is to just find a girl to pretend with. If he asks you why you never kiss, say you do...you just like to do that stuff in private. Problem solved.
2007-06-27 12:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by staroftheuniverses21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sooner or later you are going to have to tell them, why don't you just get it over with. Sit down with both of them and tell them the truth.
2007-06-27 13:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by MORENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋