Why would someone do this?
2007-06-27 04:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
some people rejoice at things they shouldn't because they have a problem themself with that, some don't know how to act or respond or do it properly, some don't think you're serious when you say something sad so they laugh it off, some people just treat everything as undelicate, some have a nervous laugh like a cheek twitch they just can't help it.
Just put it into the stupidity category and move on and past it. They were just insensitive.
2007-07-04 13:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course one should rejoice in their childhood no matter how bad..if not, what do they have left...my two children had their childhood disrupted by an ugly, and I mean "ugly", divorce and custody battle and today they are well educated and well adjusted adults..why...because the brain is selective and they remember the good times before and after the divorce...funny, the psychologist's ploy is force the recall so they can treat a neurotic adult....we all have trauma in our lives, of course some more than others, but the real being learns to accept and get past adversity in their lives.
2007-06-27 12:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by bruce b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They got over the hurdle and took responsibility for what was theirs followed by releasing what wasn't.
Then you have the folks that are addicted to attention and instead of dealing with issues in the past or present they fabricate their childhood to be nothing but solid chaos. So much that they'll never find out why their life is such a mess until they let go of the need for control and the blame-shifting. That is because when one lies they begin to lie about lying and pretty soon all they do is make false statements and live a dishonest life.
2007-06-27 12:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My childhood was not the greatest. I argued with my Dad constantly, and he would be very hot tempered. My mother moved out from about age 15-19. My parents house was so junked up, I am suprised I lived there so long. Mom and Dad always argued, etc. The list could go on.
However, I am thankful for the life that I was raised in. I understand how much more I appreciate being married, the nice house I have, job, etc.
I am thankful because I learned things to be a better parent.
2007-06-27 12:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michael G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am such a person. I suffered mental, sexual and physical abuse. I was told for years that I was a stupid tramp. This started when I was 7 or so and went on until I was 15. I didn't even know what a tramp was. When I was 15 my step-dad started molesting me. All the important parental figures in my life beat the crap out of me. I had no loving physical contact from age 10-15. When people hugged me or payed any attention to me I was just shake like I was freezing to death.
I married at age 19 because I was looking for someone to love me. I had two girls and my whole life changed the day of my divorce. My ex-husband ran around on me 5-6 times in our 8 year marriage. I found my soul mate whom I have been married to for 6 years and adore my children. I found Jesus and all my pain was erased. There is not a day that goes by that I don't tell everyone in my family how much I love them. I hold my girls and hug them. I have never felt so much pure love in all my life. I am truly blessed. I believe that I endured so much pain to truly appreciate how much that I have now.
2007-07-02 21:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by sewcrafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times children rejoice in their childhood when they get older because they find out through there now adult eyes and understanding that it was not that bad after all.
For me personally when things were the darkest and the hardest was when we were the closest.
2007-07-04 01:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Charla C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple!! Oliver Twist.
2007-06-27 12:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Agent 909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i did. i got the bad childhood, then teenage hood and at the beginning of my adulthood i thought to myself, i'm not going to let my kids grow up like this. i cut ties with anyone that stood in the way of giving me a better life and pushed away anyone who dragged me down. this in itself gives you courage and strength to further yourself until you're happy with your situation. like me :) i'm buying a house and about to get married to a beautiful woman that always encourages me.
2007-06-27 12:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should rejoice to forge ahead ; afterall ,' we live for the future and not for the past '
2007-07-05 05:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by ayedun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know?
2007-07-05 02:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by nanseaa. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋