Last year after me & my husband got back togheter ;he had a coworker s flirting openly with him always trying to get his attention telling him she had sex dream about him..he talk a lot about her, told me that the guys at work thought that they had something going on..then he left his job he gave her his number.they started to call each other ;email each other flirting a lot ..she wanted to "hang out" and seems like he wanted it too but they need did because that s when i started to put a stop to it..i felt very uncomfortable and sent her an email to give her a piece of my mind..and i found out that my husband wrote to her to apologize about my email..saying that he didn't know why his"*******"wife did that??v hurtful of course.
we had a huge argument he erase her email+phone number admit he was wrong and for a while things stopped..but then i notice my husband was trying really hard to get in touch with her and now they are in contact again..i am uspet about it am i overreacting?
2007-06-27 04:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by kateausten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope, you aren't wrong. As a guy, I can almost guarentee you that he is having some sort of a relationship with her, either emotionally or physically. Either way, it isn't fair to you and he isn't taking your feelings into consideration. I would lay down the law and if he can't do without it, then he will have to do without you.
2007-06-27 04:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mike T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not over reacting ask your husband if he wants a divorce and if he does then take him to the cleaners by that i mean hire the meanest ,nastiest lawyer you can get and clean him out . show him that if he plays then he pays in more ways than one .and if he does not want a divorce then tell him to cut the crap of fooling around with this woman . enough is enough . good luck dear and I will pray for you .
2007-06-27 11:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over reacting? No way. You said you got back together last year. What was the reason for the split, did he cheat? Sure seems to me he wants to cheat now. I think its past putting your foot down and demanding he stop all contact with her. His actions speak loud, I'd throw him out.
2007-06-27 11:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not overreacting. Your husband is mentally cheating. He knows that you do not like this relationship yet he is openly continuing it. You need marriage counseling. This situation is not good.
2007-06-27 11:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly not. If he sent an apology letter to her, then something's up. I think u should have a conversaton with him, letting him know how u feel. If he doesnt care, and keeps talking to her and "flirting" I think that you have a decision to make...
2007-06-27 11:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not overreacting. he wants something with her. if he admits that there is something going on between them you shouldn't had that argument. take care'
2007-06-27 13:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no-you're spot on. he wants more from her than you will let him. you're not stupid-you can clearly see it.
tell him if he continues you also have a nive "friend" to hang out with
2007-06-27 11:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by jenush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over-reacting at all.. I don't think it's a jealousy issue.
2007-06-27 11:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by AMANDA M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋