everyone at school thinks I am gay because i am not attracted to either sex yet. Please help cause its not just afew people, its a school of about 1200 people doing it (though only about 1000 are doing it). If i go anywhere near a kid in Y9+ i get hurt. Don't say tell a teacher because i have tried that. the kids i tell on stop for a few days while all the rest don't just do it when they see me.... They turn it into a man hunt for me. I used to have a few friends the helped but they all got hurt and i kept ditching them to protect them.
personally i think a need a bodyguard.
2007-06-27 04:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by adam r 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yeah ty got any ideas about what i should do?
2007-06-27 04:22:26 · update #1
mum won't let me change school as the only option is a private school
2007-06-27 04:24:14 · update #2
this is as bad as it gets. The worst thing that I have done is skip 2 lessons. (i was out cold on the field)
2007-06-27 04:30:24 · update #3
The teachers already know
2007-06-27 04:30:43 · update #4
I had 1 but saddly she moved away (had a huge crush on her) and all the girls my age are saying i am gay
2007-06-27 05:02:31 · update #5
How old are you? Maybe you just arent interested because you have better things to worry about than engaging in sexual behavior like all the other sex-crazed kids these days.
Talk to your principle. Tell him what's been going on and that no matter how many times he bring kids into the office, they will just keep doing it. Tell him that if he wants to help, he will keep quiet. Let him know that you will be standing up for yourself so if he hears about any fights between you and another kid, to know that the reason is because they are non-stop teasing you.
Dont back down. if you let them know that they are hurting you, they will keep doing it.
I dont know how big these kids are but you can always bring them down physiologically rather than physically. Tell them that you arent afraid of them. Tell them that the only reason they pick on you is because they are insecure and dont like who they are themselves-thus they have to make themselves feel better by picking on you.
Tell them that they are weak. Tell them you are better than they are because you dont pick on people who arent like you. Tell them they are pathetic and if they keep picking on you, they will get the "bully" reputation and soon no one will be their friend.
Bring up their homelife. Tell them their mommy and daddy probably have problems and its all their fault.
Get to their minds and bring them down. Dont let them destroy you. Be strong!
2007-06-27 05:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jennifer~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a date so everyone stops bugging you ... or suck it up ... I use to get called a sl*t ... ska*k ... stuck up - too good for everyone ... anything and everything because I was shy and wasn't allowed to date ... I never had sex in high school - but yet girls called me every name in the book ( I think it was a little bit of jealousy .. lol ) people are going to make fun of you no matter what - try to be stronger - and not let them get to you so much ... it hurts and I know how you feel ... but the more you brush it off the more they'll notice it's not affecting you ... !
High school is such a small portion of your life ... most of the things that happen really don't matter once you graduate ... find some friends that you feel comfortable with and chill out about the subject - don't even think about it for a week ... start over and move on ... good luck ... !
2007-06-27 11:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents. They have to have a long talk with the school priincipal.
I know you don't want that but the school authorities have to be told. When things like this are not stopped early on, it can escalate into something beyond teasing. By that I mean some of the people in your school could get violent towards you.
2007-06-27 11:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry, high school sucks. there are so many people in high school that are worried about being popular. they think if they put others down it is lifting them up. it is silly and should get better when you head off to college. I know it got alot better for me.
2007-06-27 11:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tei Foxey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are asexual which means you lack interest in or desire for sex.
I'd go to another school or call the police if it was that bad.
2007-06-27 11:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids are so cruel these days.
2007-06-27 11:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by HoodTookMeUnda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
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2007-06-27 11:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by km 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can
2007-06-27 11:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by buy my llama costs $1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋