How can u win over your enemies?

Answer 1

I view that enemies in life occur only and only where there is jealousy, urge to win someone with force and above all the money make the people enemy of one another.

Enemies we produce when I say,

" I'm-greater-than-you" or I'm-better-than-You

Attitude.

Just and just change your attitude and you will see no one in enemy, it's our creation.


AS WE SEE PEOPLE,
WE TREAT THEM,
AND AS WE TREAT THEM,
OFTEN THEY BECOME.

I don't know why people hate when their is little time in the life span to flourish and grow.

Answer 2

I try not to have enemies. I am not interested in winning. If one is not interested in me no problem. Friends and enemies are on the mundane plane. I just try to see everyone as an eternal servant of God in different stages of realization. Some are just more covered by Maya (illusion) than others. Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada

Answer 3

Dear Anil,

I have deduced something from a phrase i had heard something in past.

I person convinced against his will ..........will remain of the same view still

DO NOT TRY TO WIN.

Just do what you have to.........keep going as normal..................Do not try to hurt them at least.
Do not think of winning them over and do not treat them as enemy.
That's one way and one side of the coin

This will help you to destress from the issue of enimity and winning over.

One day you'll know they were never an enemy and they will know this too.

The other side of coin is the dark side, Have a enemy and enemity religiously a DIE DIE situation, do not kill your enemy Bleed Him Slowly. don't let him Die.

Trust me second option is tough and evil.
You need to be hard hearted you will forever remain Stressful and it will corrupt your conscience and lifestyle and attitude.
I'd Suggest the former.

Hope it helps!

Cheers for the first option!

Answer 4

You cannot win over your enemies. You can live as an example of goodness and not attempt revenge when wronged.
Peace.

Answer 5

I believe that can be hard at times. Many people that have too much hate in them will never find that way to love thy neighbor as we all would want. At times, I give them some space and I show them that I won't fight back. I am more at peace now than I have been in the past and many people still cannot accept me. It can be a hard question.

Answer 6

Gandhigiri. Send them flowers and sweets. Havent you seen Lage Raho Munnabhai?

Treat them as your friends. It may just shock them into seeing reason.

Approach them through trusted mediators.

If all this fails, continue to treat them as your enemies.

Answer 7

By being the best person you are. To show acceptance, respect, tolerance, and love. By showing respect people can see you for who you are. Showing a lack of respect for people shows them that you feel you are better than them.

Answer 8

There is only one way, that is, you have to be very friendly with them, though they show enmity towards you. I know, this is very difficult, because, I faced it. But you cannot help it. You have to forget everything and behave as if nothing is there in between. But, when time comes, you have to explain them where they have erred.

Answer 9

I always swear by these sayings. " Keep your friends close and your enemies closer". and " A kind word turns away wrath".

Answer 10

look for their weaknesses and learn how to turn the tables by probing with questions as to why they are rude and bullying.

Talk in normal tones, offer understanding in your responses, respect their space and try to convert them by showing them another way to deal with you and their deep rooted issues