Hi. Yeah. Wellllll, I'm ready to have sex. I KNOW I'm ready to have sex. And please, don't judge me and tell me that "you're obviously not ready if you're asking questions." I really don't need to hear any of that. I just have a very low tolerance for pain. I want to know other people's PAST EXPERIENCES. please dont judge me!!
Thanx.
2007-06-27 03:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i need PAST EXPERIENCES!!!!
2007-06-27 03:47:26 · update #1
Well honestly 4 me like the first time i had sex the first 2 or 3 times he went in my it was kinda painful. But after that and he started going faster it was amazing and we have had a amazing sex life since then! I won't judge you cuz your making the choice and not some guy! So i think its tight that you can tell when your ready! Congrats
2007-06-27 03:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by bulldozer#29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the first thing: make sure you use protection. And a long enough foreplay - that will reduce the pain. Wait until you feel that you are ready, my boyfriend asked me if I was ready and I said yes, but seems that I wasn't quite ready since we had to try 2-3 times to make it right. To be honest, it hurt! That's why I say to make sure you get a long foreplay. Good luck! ;)
2007-06-27 06:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by DianaMC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If you tense up, you'll make it worse for yourself. If there is, and most often there isn't, the pain would last the length of getting a needle. It's not horrible pain and is worth it.
Since it's your first time, be sure your partner wears a condom and use lubrication to help (like K.Y. Jelly - no vaseline - petroleum products eat away at condoms and then you are not protected from STD's or pregnancy).
2007-06-27 03:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by NewGrandma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time. If taken nice and slow and obviously depending on the size of the guy and how small you are it will hurt. It will only hurt the first couple minutes and it won't be so painful you will want to cry or anything like that. And you may not even bleed. Don't worry about a thing, it ain't all that bad. More uncomfortable than anything.
2007-06-27 03:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi not trying to put you off or anything but my first experience was bad.......not everyones is though! If you are going to have sex make sure you just relax and take your time, be well lubricated and have lots of foreplay before he actually penetrates you this will make it less painfull hope this helps!
2007-06-27 03:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sharriebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am assuming of course that you are not married or getting ready to marry... therefore you are the mercy of an inexperienced young man. there are consiquences for having sex prior to marriage such as the person you are going to have sex with hasn't even commited to spending the rest of his life with you so why would he worry how this experience effects you... sex before marriage... beware....
the advise that has been given to you so far will help add in the discomfort... you would be surprised at the amount of discomfort you can tolerate when it is experienced with someone who is commited to you...
2007-06-27 04:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It honestly depends on the person. Some women feel alot of pain while others don't feel anything. Good luck! and remember to use protection.
2007-06-27 03:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, at first if you havent had any type of sexual experiences it will hurt for a little bit. but just tell your partner that it is your first time and to take it slowly untill you get used to it
2007-06-27 03:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by kissesfromhvn807 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not "pain", just "discomfort". Not bad at all.
2007-06-27 03:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by abbyful 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
besst thing in the world, not to painful!!!!
2007-06-27 03:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Big-T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋