I have been very depressed lately and my bf has been very supportive but today I was at work, an internship that I hate and I decided for some strange reason to just get in my car and drive home and then I knew that it was stupid so I just drove back to work. My bf is fed up and he knows that I am trying to get help by seeing a shrink so he told me that he is being very patient with me but he said he can't keep worrying what mood I'll be in and if I'll be very upset or if I'll be happy. I keep saying I am sick of putting him through this but I keep acting like an idiot. After we talked, I texted him and told him that I was sorry for putting him through this and that I loved him, he has not responded. I want to be reassured that he still loves me and go back to all the happy times that we used to share. This is the second time I am putting him through this and I need suggestions on what to do. Please help me!!!! I don't know what I will do without him. I'm sick of loosing people.
2007-06-27 03:21:46 · 5 answers · asked by blu2ful07 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Depression is a difficult thing to deal with. My wife was in severe depression for a couple of years after she injured herself and could no longer work. It was a really stressful time for us, but I am committed to my wife and our relationship, so we made it through together. I have to admit, that I wondered if I could take it much longer, but my love for her was so strong. If your b/f is committed to you and your relationship, he will work through this time with you and hang in there. If he can't handle it, you may need to rethink your relationship anyway, long term. Make sure you keep all of your appointments with your therapist and you may need to try an antidepressant. Once they found the right one for my wife, it was like a miracle as she started to come out of the depression and be herself again. Just hang in there and take care of yourself right now. He will either help you through it or move on, and just know that whatever he chooses to do, it's better for you to know now than later. Feel better!
2007-06-27 03:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a lot of respect for your boyfriend that he can recognize a poisonous relationship and be willing to get out. If you love him, and you know that you are putting him through things that are difficult, you need to let him go. You can't be happy with another person until you are happy with yourself. Talk to him, let him go, get some help. Live by yourself. Become self-reliant.
2007-06-27 03:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by catsovermen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
preserve peace. Dont fake not something befell, sit down jointly and communicate approximately. show your thoughts and dont attempt to declare something like 'yet nonetheless you probably did this so its in area your fault' reason which will worsen him and if he says something like 'it grow to be thoroughly your fault' don't get offended in basic terms shop it cool...you attempt to retrieve the affection you had earlier not attempting to be certain who grow to be interior the incorrect. If he additionally feels undesirable approximately it he will ask for forgiveness too. the speedier you calm the hurricane the fewer harm it motives. i wish this makes him give up smoking!
2016-12-08 19:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I used to do the same thing to my husband. Here are my tips:
*Leave work at work--from here forward DO NOT talk about work, co-workers, etc at home or with your b/f
*Start a journal to "vent" in (I do this and it works like a charm!)
*Start seeking new employment (but remember all jobs suck)
Hopefully these things help!
2007-06-27 03:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mary A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this man really realy loves you alot and understands everything your going through because he has been through it him self, he knows what depresson is and will never leave you, ever.
2007-06-27 03:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by john6778890 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋