Last night, My grandparents and me were watching TV and there was some curvier women on the TV. And my grandpa says "They would be pretty if they lost about 150 pounds." I thought that was a sexist man thing to say. I was hurt by that. I am a little on the curve side but I have always been happy with my self. My grandparents were both married before but they never had kids together. So grandpa has his kids and my grandma has hers. (I'm from my grandma side) My grandpa's daughter and granddaughters are thinner than me. I think that he loves them differently than he loves me. And it shows during the holidays when they are home. He is too stuck in his way to change his mind. Should I tell him how that makes me feel when he says things like that? HELP!!!
2007-06-27 02:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHy its not going to change him just relax you know you look good and so does he but he's not going to admit it ~~
2007-06-27 02:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make everyone to like you:) They say that the words have no value, they only take value from the person that tells em so if you value his word so much then u might wanna ask your grandma about it.
2007-06-27 10:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by lordaccess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you talk to your Grandma about it first, to get her idea on it, that way you dont stir the pot with a heated question like that...
2007-06-27 10:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Five Crowns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him -i am sure that you are a beautiful kid in every way!
2007-06-27 10:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋