This is an honest and perhaps not a quick question. I would really like to know what pattern this is, if it's not a mixture. This box is too small for the full situation but this should make a good overview:
Me: Gay
Straight Guys:Immediately spot I'm gay, are fine with it, tease me and I tease them. Good relations.
Straight Girls:Incredible. You'd think I was a popstar. And that is from age 12 to age 70, from bank to beach to bus stop. What some ladies do in the supermarket to get to the same refrigerator at the same time as me would in any other situation be considered a circus act. I have no clue how or why I give the wrong signals.
Other fact:I flirt back. With a lot of fire and enthusiasm. 2, 3 times per day (Except if there is a chance of hurting). It's like in me.
Gay guys: A great void. If I'm already noticed, it seems my standards go through the roof, and i do not react. If a great guy comes up to me, I do not give any hint either. I'm told I'm very distant.
2007-06-27 02:48:18 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh I have an add box here. Then quickly add one important thing : that I really hate it i am like that with gay guys. As if I'm stuck in a behaviour I can not get rid of.
2007-06-27 03:02:20 · update #1
Hey Corey, yes, I took antropology. My guess was i am dealing with a mixture of issues, and these boxes are far too small. Also antropology in the heading would give me less answers. (Almost all people are interested in psychology, antropology a lot less).
2007-06-27 03:05:40 · update #2
behaviour is a combination of both. some character traits are there from birth. you can even test some on babies.
traits like these are:
introvert/extrovert personality
passive or active (this one can be tested by putting a towel over a babies eyes)
some babies tend to lie there, and w8 for hte towel to be removed, others immediately grab it.
other character traits are from nurture, how you react to people for example. flirting is a good one, you learn most of this by looking at and mimicing your parrents in early life.
2007-06-27 02:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by mrzwink 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you're a guy - it doesn't matter if we're straight or not, we're all clueless about how to deal with our chosen sex.
That was said from a humorous point of view, but as I think about it, it would seem to point to the way that we were raised and the examples around us.
2007-06-27 09:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gay is not determined by culture (geez, does anyone take anthropology classes anymore, do you even know what "culture" is??). It is a biological determinant. You choose to act however you want to act. You can butch it up or flame it down, whatever you want to be. However, sexual orientation is rooted in biology along with gender identification.
2007-06-27 09:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋