Me and my boyfriend have spent kinda amazing time together. I'm just curious to know as what we did is a kind of sex or no cause i gues sex is just not intercourse but other than that too. We've kissed alot of times.. removed shirts.. i'v kissed him all over his chest.. he hasnt removed ma bra but kissed ma boobs till da bra got wet.. and he's kissed me all over ma body too. We just din't remove our pants. Is it a kind of sex too?
I'm 18 and we both hav just got done wid our high skool !
I'm still confused.. some of u say its not while some say it is.. Please make me clear abt it !!
2007-06-27 02:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's called making out...
YOU HAVE NOT HAD SEX UNTIL HE ACTUALLY PENETRATES YOU.
2007-06-27 02:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you are still virgin. You need penetration for sex and you would definitely need your pants off for that. I would say that if you always keep your pants on, you aren't doing anything that qualifies as any sort of sex. The blurry part is when you get to oral or anal sex. Virginity is about innocence and I personally do not see how you can claim to be innocent if you are doing either. Just do what is right for you and be safe.
2007-06-27 09:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by reggieg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everything you describe there is sexual but it's not sexual intercourse. You are not having "sex" per se. But you are close. If you decide to start having sex with your boyfriend, be smart and take the right precautions. Always use condoms and, if possible, start taking the pill. Sex is not a game and you must be very responsible.... if you do everything the right way, you and your boyfriend will enjoy it.
2007-06-27 09:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you and your boyfriend did was make out. something similar to if not the same thing; foreplay! thats what you do to get your self in the mood for the actual act of intercourse or oral sex. sex more so involves the genitalia/and or mouth.
2007-06-27 09:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not sex. It could be foreplay. But not sex. Sex is when a penis enters a vagina, end of story. There is also Anal Sex, which is not sex, but ANAL sex. When the penis is put into the butt. So, what you did was not sex. But sex isn't important. Stay happy together, and don't rush anything. Be safe and good luck! =]
2007-06-27 09:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bumbles Bounce 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's sex when intercourse takes place....or for some people oral sex.
All the stuff about the wet boobs wasn't necessary....LOL
2007-06-27 09:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like just making out and heavy petting to me. Usually sex is oral sex and penetration with anything (toys fingers, etc). Things got hot and heavy with foreplay but it doesn't sound like sex.
2007-06-27 09:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by planetnoelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, I don't call it sex unless you have intercourse, but it all depends on your personal definition of it. It is "sexual" what you are doing, but I wouldn't personally refer to it as "sex". All of that can certainly be a part of sex, and they are sexual acts, but I wouldn't tend to call it having sex until you have intercourse.
2007-06-27 09:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No none of that is considered sex at all. Just a good time :)
2007-06-27 09:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u did not have intercourse but u guyz kissed each other all over and possibly experienced orgasm too..then its sort of oral sex
2007-06-27 09:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by blueknight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is kissing, not sex. If no actual genitals were used, then nope. You're good.
2007-06-27 09:49:08 · answer #11 · answered by abizzell4hire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋