Why are people so caught up in worrying about who is gay is gay? What does it take away from their life ?

Question

It is so stupid all the energy spent on speculation , gossip and especially hatred. Why would any secure TRULY straight man really care if Bob down the street , at the days end, lays with Tom? Answer; He does not! If a man is always mouthing off about gays, he is surely not as secure in his sexuality as he is trying to portray. A man LOUDLY and often talking against Gays is trying to say, Dont WORRY about me. I hate gays!"
A real straight man is way more secure and rarely would even think of that, much less go on and on about. If most people knew what how quickly their property values would increase when a few gay guys move into a few houses in the neighborhood, fix them up, and begin to uplift the image of the area, they would be sending out invitations!
If you are truly STRAIGHT what does it take away from you if gays love each other. How is your life compromised if they can marry? It is not!
And anyway, Bob n Tom are probably having non sex like any other couple! :)

Answer 1

Polite- people do not discuss their bedroom habits

I find homosexuality disgusting but I do not care one iota if someone in my neighborhood chooses to degrade themselves in that manner just as I am sure they don't care how I choose to degrade myself.

Simply put- what I do in my bedroom allows me no special recognition neither should anyone else's bedroom behavior allow them special recognition.

Answer 2

You seem to be a very smart and astute person and I believe you already know the answer to this question. People either have a fear because of their own insecurities or when they went through an "experimentation"phase when they were kids they still feel guilt about that.

PS If Bob and Tom are NOT having sex,, they should be seeking counseling :)

Answer 3

I think you hit the proverbial nail on the head. I also don't understand the obsession with children shows characters. First Tinky-Winky and then Sponge Bob. Personally, as a kid, Bugs Bunny's sexuality was like the furthest thing from my mind.

Answer 4

Well said. You deserve 10 points for that