in few months....will my spouse get to know about it? i don't wanna cheat him...but can't tell hi m that i'm not a virgin.
2007-06-26 20:23:35 · 8 answers · asked by k 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why don't you just tell him your not a virgin, he doesn't need to know who with. Don't you think he might have been with someone before you????
2007-06-26 20:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will know so you better be honest. There's not much way around this. Did you already tell him you were a virgin? Like someone else said there is surgery for this if you have the money. Maybe you should put off the wedding until you figure this out.
2007-06-27 03:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by marie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to be honest with him. The worst way to start a marriage is by lying to him. Don't worry, he'll understand. He's probably not a virgin either.
2007-06-27 10:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband love you.... he should not be concerned abt your virginity. and you shouldnt tell this to him. trust me it will spoil your marriage.
wht done is done. there is no need to beat the trumpet.there is no need to explain your sins and spoil your upcoming life. stop thinking abt the past and live your present happily with your husband.
honestly its not cheating.its saving your future and giving your loving husband a pieceful life.
2007-06-27 03:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by RMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you got money?? If you do, get hymenoplasty done. Then on your 'first night' you can play the coy virgin bride. But honestly.. why do you want to lie? If telling the truth is not an option then, get hymenoplasty.
2007-06-27 03:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by sabrewilde666 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hes probably not one either dont panic
2007-06-27 03:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to tell him now because on your first night if he is expecting you to bleed and you don't.....not good.
2007-06-27 05:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nadia214 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HEY THE TRUTH HURTS BUT THE LIES KILL! JUST THINK ABOUT THAT.
2007-06-27 04:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋