We have been together for 16 years, we get along pretty good but we hardly ever have sex.
2007-06-26 18:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by CJBig 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you sound like pretty good buddies
2007-06-26 19:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably not you. He fell into the porn trap, watching it so much that he can't get it up for you. This means porn is a problem. When you talk to him concentrate on how it makes you feel that he doesn't want you sexually rather than just talking about sex. Ask him what the source of the problem might be. When he says he does not know, suggest masturbation, ask him how often he does it. No matter what he says, ask him to do it less and see if it helps w/ sex w/ you. Ask him about porn, no matter what he says, tell him to reduce it to see if it helps you guys out. Also, tell him how long it has been since you had an orgasm from him. You might have to go thru this a few times if nothing changes. Try not to feel ugly and unwanted, he is the one w/ the issue, NOT you.
2016-05-17 04:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal but it happens. I was in a marriage like that. We hardly had sex and that was because of my wife. But when she decided to move out and wanted a divorce she asked, "doesn't it bother you that we hardly have sex?" You give what they want and they still leave.
2007-06-26 19:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rob M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't need to "make" love anymore...the love between you is already great. Just do little romantic things if you're not into sex. Its probably tiring for your partner next time you do it try something new or take control...Sometimes your partner isn't into it because they have to be in control of everything and/or tired of the same routine. Get Unpredictable! =D
2007-06-26 19:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by powerpuffcutie24™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, being married for 16 years you should be having sex all the time
2007-06-26 19:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Flowers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you don't really get along pretty good, in all honesty, do you? No, not normal. Maybe common, but not normal.
2007-06-26 19:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my book! Ask some questions. Find out what's wrong.
2007-06-26 19:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not normal for ANYONE to hardly have any sex
2007-06-26 19:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're both OK with that, sure, there's no such thing as "normal." If you're not happy, get counselling.
2007-06-26 19:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by muffinman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kids, jobs, in-laws things do get in the way but you gotta make time.
2007-06-26 19:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by jennyforrich 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋