Please help me moms/married woman?
Alot of people called me gay because i said i loved my freinds more than mi life, but of course the lord n family come first, but now im irritated because im sensitive, not like im cryin, but now im bothered!! Am i gay because i love my freinds and always worry about them n think they r pretty? I LIKE A GUY THOUGH! please help now im kinda scared, i wanna live a life for jesus i dont wanna be a lesbian! Why do people say this?
2007-06-26 17:30:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are not a lesbian!!! People are just being stupid. They are just looking for someone to focus on because it is easier to focus on you being a lesbian then their own feelings. I think it is wonderful that you are seeking a relationship with the lord. God Bless.
2007-06-26 17:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, talk to your parents. People will say what they want to say it does not mean it is who we are. You sound confused about what being gay is. Having friend is the best thing that can ever happen to a person. Some will be there long after all these questions. Don't let others push you around or make you feel that you have to make decisions without thinking first. There must me a guidance counselor or maybe a female friend of your family that you can talk to. I would start first with your own Mom. However, I understand that sometimes is hard-it was with my daughter. How about an Aunt?
2007-06-27 00:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by girafflady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know that a lot of gay people hate Christians because we stand up for the truth that homosexuality is wrong. I love my girl friends too but I love my husband as well. There is nothing wrong with you and nothing to be upset about. If I were you I would take in to the Lord in prayer.
2007-06-27 00:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, you are confused. Stop listening to stupid people. Of course you're not gay because you care about your friends.
Keep focus, though. If you are putting the Lord first, what He wants for you should come first. Maybe you are spending too much time worrying about your friends, and too little time doing that what the Lord intends for you?
God bless!
2007-06-27 00:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by njspanteach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a lesbian. Homosexuality is not a disease, or a birth defect. All humans are born attracted to the opposite sex, under all circumstances. Homosexuality is a conscious decision, and if you have not told yourself "I think women are meant to make love to women", you have not made that decision. I am a man, very secure with my own sexuality, and am married. But just because I am heterosexual, that does not mean that I do not know what an attractive man would look like. It just means that when I see an 'attractive' man, I am not sexually attracted to him.
2007-06-27 00:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my step dad thought I was gay even after I started dating only boys. A lot of people who aren't used to being around others who are loving will assume stupid things like that. They don't make you who you are - you do. plus, I think lots of girls are pretty and sometimes even kind of stare at them to compare - I think it's normal - I've never had any fantasies about women however.
2007-06-27 00:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by christie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bcuz you want to be good with god all that it is the devil wants to attack you and make you think you are gay when you are not just pray girl loving your friends and family and being a caring person to everyone is not being gay you live your life and dont be bothered by comments and like you said they are bothering just pray to God for wisdom and comfort he will give it to you just look up to him and he will guide you and make you feel good Pray lots dont let the devil attack you and succeed Ill be praying for you as well
2007-06-27 00:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving friends and being homosexual have no connection. Ignore those people, if you know you are not, then its fine. There is nothing wrong with being homosexual though... so even if you are, it's no big deal.
2007-06-27 00:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention what people say..
Lots of times they know it gets to you..
You sound like you got it all together to me...
"Take Care"
2007-06-27 00:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mustbe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? i don't know why your sexual preference is even in question. sounds like your friends may be gay. quit worrying over nothing.
2007-06-27 00:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by jar894 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋