2007-06-26 13:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ok, let's take it one step at a time. You don't say how old you are - I hope not too young to take this step. The most important question is, do you want to do this, or are you doing it for another reason?
Let's say you really want to. Then, I'll ask, what's the guy like? Do you know him well?
Is he a good guy, not just when he's sweet-talking you, but all the time? Most important, does he care about you? If you know him, and he's a good guy, treats you well, and really cares about you, you have a good start.
Physically, I wouldn't be too worried. In my case, I had no pain whatsoever. But, everyone is different. Take it slow. Don't do more than you want to. Use lubricant. Lots of foreplay helps.
It would be good to have a discussion about his sexual background and previous partners, to protect yourself.
And, very important: Use birth control, and protect yourself from Aids, herpes, and other diseases with a condom.
2007-06-26 14:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Artemis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings bad going to happened, maybe a Little bleeds but only at first time. make sure you got a protections and mentally ready. You should do this to someone you really love and care. and think that you're someone very special!! OK?
2007-06-26 21:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by stella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it unless you are comfortable with talking to him about everything that comes along with it. if talking to him is uncomfortable...then he isnt the right person to do it with. i know it seems like everyone is doing it and you are curious but waiting for the right person is important.
if he is the right person then i would recommend using lube. it might hurt or feel uncomfortable physically at first but after a few seconds it feels better.
2007-06-26 20:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by REMEMBER ME! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, what my dad told my brother was "if it smells like fish, eat all you wish. If it smells like cologne, leave it alone."
If you're scared then don't do it. It's normal to be a little nervous and apprehensive, but not scared.
2007-06-26 21:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I pretty much just threw up to the above response.
2007-06-26 20:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you and your partner are tested and that you guys are really ready.
2007-06-26 20:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, dont! unless you are married! if your not i will never respect you! you could get an STD you could get pregnant it could hurt! there is no point in it unless you are in love and married thats what makes it worth having!
2007-06-26 20:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by <3 aili-marie <3 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you are scared then you are not ready to have intercourse, IMO.
2007-06-26 21:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intercores = intercourse
2007-06-26 20:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what moosie said... dont do it unless you are married!
2007-06-26 20:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋