Or perhaps there is something like a sort of "spiritual cupid" that drives arrows of love into the heart of two people. Causing them to fall in love at first sight or by second glance. I believe that love can happen both ways, over the course of time, because you grow joined to one another. And somewhat instantaneously because you are joined to one another. What do you thin?
2007-06-26 13:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by veronica r 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I think it's some sort of strange combination, and that 'love at first sight' is not necessarily physical attraction.
2007-06-26 13:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by shmux 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
true love should be a friendship. u should b able to trust friends and share ur life with them. those r the types of people u should want to spend the rest of ur life with. love at first sight is basically saying "hey, i like the way u look. wanna date me?" thatll last for about a week. but if u actually become friends with that person and start to love them, u were still their friend before u learned to love them.
2007-06-26 16:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by i_can_be_your_hero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what people call "love at first sight" is not actual love, just instant attraction. True love is something that takes time and knowing your partner in order to develop.
2007-06-26 13:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by writeaway 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love at first sight is just a dumb story thought up by some romantic who wanted to have an excuse for being "in love" with someone attractive.
true love isn't attraction, it's a feeling that comes when you begin to really care about someone, and i believe that it's rather hard to care for someone THAT much if you've barely met them. and i also don't think that it's all romance either, you can love your siblings and cousins and all the rest of your family, and friends.
2007-06-26 13:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
'love at first sight' is actually physical attraction. the love that grows over the years, through trials and tribulations, is true love. many instances of true love start out as physical attraction, but eventually you get to a point where you have to work at it.
2007-06-26 13:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no way. by way of fact while u meet and stay with that individual u will locate that each thing replaced into in ur strategies approximately him replaced into all lies, by way of fact on line love is a hundred% complete with lies and talks purely mutually as though u choose actual love u choose greater then speaking purely u choose somebody beside u somebody can sense u somebody u sense that u can spend ur total existence with him
2016-09-28 12:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joined to one another -- yuck.
I've always found it odd that people would qualify an emotion in this way -- true love. Isn't that like saying true anger, or true guilt.
And by contrast that doesn't imply false emotions -- false love, false anger, false guilt.
2007-06-26 13:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think its both as well.
2007-06-26 13:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋