I am scared. Ever since after my period me and my boyfriend have been haveing sex unprotected. He used the pull out method each time. But i thgink he pre came inside me. Ive heard that women get pregnant from pre come. im just scared. Lately ive been feeling really tired. when i touch my brest they hurt. I feel like i have cramps even thogh my period has not come a whitish material is coming out of my you know what. it just weird. Ive been having mood swings. crying for the slitest things and my stoamch is week to certain foods now. Is there a possiblility that im pregnant. Please and thankyou. If there is any advice or asistance you can give to me i would really really appreciate it
2007-06-26 13:12:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is pre-ejaculate that comes out before the actual ejaculation and it contains sperm so it's not an effective method. Take a test if you are having symptoms and use protection next time.
2007-06-26 13:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The few symptoms you've described sound like there is a possibility. The easiest thing to do is take a home pregnancy test, depending on how long it has been (not as reliable as a blood test though). That whitish material is normal if it is like mucus or slimy stuff -- whether you are pregnant or not. Something to know is that when you have that, it usually means you are at the best time for getting pregnant (some people use this as an indication called the rhythm method, but it's not an effective method -- like 50-50 chances ). "Pulling out" is also not effective.
I can tell you the only 100% effective method is abstinence -- but I know that probably isn't going to happen. (sorry, I'm a mom, I had to say that, I was obligated to LOL)
If you are going to have sex, the very LEAST you could do is use protection -- a condom, or condom with the messy stuff, I don't know how old you are but something more effective is the pill, but it has it's risks too. Go to DHS or a family planning agency, or a doctor and they can give you all the options you have. They will give you a urine and/or blood pregnancy test before giving you contraception. Yes, it's true, you can get pregnant that way.
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-06-26 20:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by prisssygirrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very scared and could use some help. First, make sure to get a friend or close relative to talk to and help you go get a pregnancy test. You may very well be pregnant.... unfortunately, pulling out is not the best birth control method and it sometimes fails if some pre-ejaculate gets in. It is best to use contraception like a condom and/or the pill.
If the test is negative and you are still showing symptoms, wait a week or two and try another test (or get a blood or urine test from the doctor). It sometimes takes a while to show up positive on the home tests, but a doctor can find out faster for you.
Please take a deep breath and get some support from those close to you.
I hope everything works out for you. My prayers are with you.
2007-06-26 20:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to diagnose you with being pregnant but it sounds like you might be. There is always a chance of getting pregnant through the pull out method. Pre-ejaculation does contain sperm. Your best bet is to get a very good early detection test use your first urine of the day (It contains the highest levels of the pregnancy hormone) and test. If it is positive get an OBGYN and make an appointment. If it is negative have protected sex from now on. If you still do not have your period and continue to have the symptoms try testing again in another week. Good luck to you hun!
2007-06-26 20:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a very good chance you could be pregnant. Pulling out doesnt always do the trick. having sex during or around your period makes you VERY fertile too. You may need to get a test. Good luck.
2007-06-26 20:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Shanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could be pregnant, everything you explained there is exactly how I was feeling the first time I found out I was pregnant. Get a hpt or just go to the doctor
Good Luck and I wish the best!
2007-06-26 20:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Shay b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be, because pre come still contains sperm and can still get you pregnant. You might want to go to a doctor and get a blood test to know for sure.
2007-06-26 20:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should go see a doctor and not seek advice from strangers on the internet. If you cannot afford one there are Free Clinics that you can look up.
good luck
2007-06-26 20:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by boogiespence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STUPID GIRL
PLAY WITH FIRE AND U WILL GET BURNT
NOW YOUR BABY WILL HAVE TO SUFFER FOR YOUR SELFISHNESS
IF YOU DIDNT WANNA FALL PREGNANT THAN USE YOUR BRAIN AND USE PROTECTION
PIDDY U
2007-06-26 20:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by x..Cassie..x 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋