They tarnish some already tarnished people very badly, and open up a big can of worms when some people's health is wanting. And, secondly, they tarnish the legacy of a cherished family member badly.
What I don't understand is why she told me. Yes, I'm the shrink in the family, but she was much closer to my sis.
Any advice. My wife says let it go. But do my bros and sis have a right to know?
2007-06-26 12:14:54 · 18 answers · asked by Rising Son 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I wasn't told not to tell, and some of the player are not only alive they are younger than me and don't know any of us.
2007-06-26 12:21:36 · update #1
The question I have to ask myself is would i want to have been told? And the answer is undeniably YES!!!!!
2007-06-26 12:23:07 · update #2
If you think that they have a right to know, and you think that's best then you should tell them, But if your having second thoughts Then don't do it.
2007-06-26 12:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by StAr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is health related and it will effect someone(like a genetic disorder or an STD) you really need to tell the person it will effect. If it is something to do with the law and could effect someones inheritance, safety, or loss of security you should say something. If it is just name calling and reputation ruining, I would let it go.
2007-06-26 12:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by TBECK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful, i think of i like being grown up! i know myself and my needs and desires a lot extra powerful than whilst i grow to be a new child and no what i could do to make optimistic they're met! Now if basically i could desire to spend ninety% of my time getting my artwork accomplished and not here on Y/A! LOL
2016-10-03 04:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell anyone. No good will ever come of it. Sometimes talking about bad things in a family history can only cause more bad feelings.
2007-06-26 12:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother saying anything now..it's been 2 years and no reason to open up old wounds or whatever..and if you are the shrink in the family you should know what to do and not ask here
2007-06-26 12:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if she wanted them to know she wouldn't have just told you, let it go listen to your wife. What purpose would it serve is anyone in harms way if not don't cause trouble.
2007-06-26 12:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I write it up,seal it,stick it in a safety deposit box and leave it there for fifty years. Your descendents should know the truth but you don't want to inflict suffering on anyone alive.
2007-06-26 12:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Galahad 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why telll them if your mother wanted them to know she would have told them if it will cause grief to someone why would you want to do that.Can you even be sure she told you the truth or did she tell you the truth as she saw it.I agree with your wife.drop it .If you tell you may regret it.
2007-06-26 12:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by shawns bonnie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go,
Telling them would serve no useful purpose .
Life is to short... enjoy your family while you still have them.
always try to keep the peace..
Good Luck!
2007-06-26 12:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the results of telling. Will it hurt or not? And does it need to be told?
2007-06-26 12:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋