my dad says every time before i go on a date all guys want is sex and they will do any thing to get it or take it. is that true or is my dad just saying that to scare me in to not dating guys. be honest
2007-06-26 10:45:10 · 24 answers · asked by the_bestsinger 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Unless he is taking you to church for the date then YES your father is correct 90% of young single men would think like that. Trust me I work around 1000's of them and other than the good Christian ones they all have the same thing on there mind and they are thinking about how they can get it one way or another
A women can never be to careful it is best to date only in a group and stay in the group...,men are good at cutting a women away from a group then raping her or slipping something into her drink or food. At least if you stay with a group you will have other women around.
Sounds like you have a loving wise dad that cares about your wellbeing.
2007-06-26 10:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's pretty much telling you the truth. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule, but the reality is, most guys (especially teenagers) will say ANYTHING to get sex. This includes telling you that's not what they're interested in, that they love you and want to marry you, etc. It's not to say you can't ever trust anyone, but keep in mind there is no rush, and MOST guys really do just want sex.
2007-06-26 17:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ben B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At a young age yes the majority will be especially the so called bad boys. There are those out there that are looking for a real relationship but that is usually when they are older. In either case be protected in the event that passion overwhelms common sense.
2007-06-26 17:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is somewhat true....yes we want sex with any girl we are willing to be seen in public with on a "date", but we are also interested in having a fun time. Most guys are not rapist and will not physically force you to have sex, but there is a wide variety of different techniques for sweet talking a girl to have sex.
2007-06-26 17:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the ages above 15 thats pretty much true. They are pumped with hormones and anxious to get their first piece. Although there are some nice boys out there, most are on the verge of trouble.
2007-06-26 19:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Solo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes my husband says that all guys do want sex. The detail is that it doesn't mean that all guys intend to have it with you that night/date, though my understanding is most would be ok with it. MY suggestion: wait until your married to have sex and don't even bother to date guys who aren't ok with your decision to wait.
2007-06-26 17:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Brent and Jenny S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. A lof of them just want sex, but a good amount of them want relationship (and, yeah, probably sex too).
You've just gotta learn to tell whos looking for what.
2007-06-26 17:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by killfoot2001 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know wher your dad is comming from im 17 and i know what hes talking about shure we want sex but we wont take it at least not any decent guy so be carful and good luck.
2007-06-26 17:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tyler J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all guys want sex but it we dont go for it on a first date cuz then it dosent seem like we want sex but even thought we really do
confusing isnt it
2007-06-26 17:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by im feelin this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could meet a nice guy at church, this is were you should look, Get yourself into a youth group at your local church, you will probably find someone worth dating there
2007-06-26 17:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by What's Up? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋