Ugh sexuality help?

Question

So i'm 15...16 in a few months
i'm pretty sure i'm Bi
infact i would say possitive
but idk who to tell or what to say/do
i'm so confused right now

Answer 1

I wouldn't worry about telling anyone. You should not have to explain your sexual orientation to anyone. Unless your uncomfortable with who you are, just be yourself and don't let anyone judge you.

Answer 2

You're young yet and are no doubt quite unsure what your sexual preference is at this time. I think that society's openness and attitudes about sexuality has brought on a lot more confusion in teens these days. I'm so sorry that you're going through this right now but things will change as you meet new and different people. No doubt a lot of your friends are saying that they are Bi and living their lifestyle is probably appealing because that's what your exposed to. Expand your horizons and also realize that you don't have make that decision at any given time and there is also nothing wrong with abstaining from sex. Talk and listen, read and check things out before you make any definite determination about your sexuality.

Perhaps the link below can help you in some way ... I know that you are not the only young person who is asking themselves this same question. Good luck and enjoy life .... don't make things more complicated than they are all on their own! =}

Answer 3

I'm your age...fifteen...and though I'm not gay or bisexual, I do have many friends who are. I have also been "the person" (many times) who people have "come out" to. So your question is--who do you tell?? That's a good question, but it comes with a pretty complicated answer. The best advice I can give you is not to plan the moment you come out. You may want to pick a special person (friend, mentor, parent, or relative) to tell, but ultimately you shouldn't tell them until you're ready. It shouldn't seem like you're reading from a script, but it also shouldn't seem like you're seeking attention. Remember: there's nothing wrong with being gay, bi, or lesbian. It might feel like all that matters is how your friends or family react to this news. What really matters is that you let them know you still have respect for yourself. Good luck! =)

Answer 4

My 15 year-old son said that to me (he's 16 now) and I told him it was a confusing time and that he probably wasn't but I didn't care if he was. He said, "yeah dad, whatever" like all teenagers do. But we spoke about it again recently and he said I was right. Don't worry yourself about it. Talk to your school counselor or your parents if you're close enough. Whether you are or aren't doesn't matter, just so long as you are OK with yourself. Good luck!

Answer 5

You don't have to do anything. Tell your parents when you feel ready. If you want, tell a few close friends. You could join the GSA at your school too.

This happened to my closest friend a few weeks ago. He told his parents (even his dad, who is very traditional) and they were fine with it. He has a lot of friends from GSA and everyone is like obsessed with him now...he knew for a long time but never told anyone except me, but he finally felt ready and did what felt right to him.

Good luck ♥

Answer 6

It's not the end of the world. Seems like in this day and age, it's ok to be gay. I'm 100% straight but I have some gay friends. I even know of high school kids who have come out. Yeah it may alienate you to a few of the guys at school but the girls will love you. Don't try to hide who you are....it will ruin your life.

Answer 7

There is this age thing,. you're 15! For the love, who gives a crap.... You have no one to explain it to and if you go to church maybe you should talk to someone. Okay, so maybe I seem a bit harsh, but you are a child! Where is this pressure to know what you are and who you are coming from. Life is a learning process and you've got a long way to go.

Answer 8

The good thing is that there are always organizations and online sites to go to and learn about other people feeling just like you do. You shouldn't be embarrassed or ashamed. You are what you are. If you ever want to talk to anybody...I'm never busy..haha..Not bi...but I'll listen....:)

Answer 9

you really don't have 2 tell anyone. Just live your life the way you want and date who you want. If somebody questions your sexuality then you can tell them if you feel comfortable.

Answer 10

Start by telling a close friend or parent. If they don't nderstand tell them that love is universal and not t oone specific gender.