please i don't want to do it anymore and i don't know what will cure me. what can i do instead? how can i avoid falling into it. it doesn't matter why iw ant to stop just please help me! thank you. *serious answers please*
2007-06-26 09:39:23 · 21 answers · asked by musclemanlover 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just when you start thinking about it and want to do it just take your mind in another place!!
dance,talk to someone,watch a film..I don't know anything that take you away from that mood!
and take a calender and everyday that you don't do it put a mark in that day!and count the days that have been marked.you try to put more marks and after many days you will stop it!!!!!
I will be happy if you do it!!!!!:)
2007-06-27 21:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first step is wanting to stop, Not knowing why you want to eliminates some of the advice I might offer.
The problem is that the sensations are quite pleasant and it's hard to give up things that we like. I suppose it could be like an alcoholic giving up drinking.
I'm hypoglycemic and I'm healthier if I don't have any processed sugar at all in my diet, but one of the reasons that I developed this problem in the first place was that I am addicted to sugar.
I know it's not the same, but the premise it the same. The longer you go with out it, the easier it will get.
That does not mean you won't want it again, or even that you won't slip from time to time.
Be ready to forgive yourself if you do,
I can't think of what you could do instead, partly because I don't know you and what you like. I can't recommend like another answerer that you just find a boyfriend, that answer has a whole new set of problems.
I wish you well, e me if you like, I'll help if I can. K
2007-06-26 16:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kathi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?? It is safe, there is no emotional connection, there is no risk for std's, HIV or anything--so why stop---if it feels good, then what is the problem?? If you know how to satisfy yourself--it will be easier to give directions when someone else is doing it!!! Knowing your body is one of the best ways to ensure you having mind blowing sex when you do have it!!!
Go ahead and rub one out--it can't hurt ya!!!!
2007-06-26 16:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating can become more of an addiction so if you really want to stop you have to start out slowly instead of stop doing it right away. Day to day, try to do it less and less. Take your time until you finally don't feel the need to do it anymore.
Good luck!
2007-06-26 16:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change your name for a start, joking. Why do you want to stop, as long as you're not doing it 24/7 then it's perfectly natural. If you really want to stop then take up a hobby like knitting.
2007-06-26 16:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just channel that energy elsewhere. every time you feel the urge go for a run, swim, cycle something that will divert the urge and also be good for you. either that or find someone to enjoy your sexuality with other than yourself.
2007-06-26 16:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by qpistol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off the porn and get a dog.
I hate when the dog watches me
2007-06-26 16:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop? There is nothing wrong with it unless you are doing it uncontrollably in public or something.
2007-06-26 16:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Katt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL----Um....go 2 church--no, really, try a new habit like exercising or join a booklcub
2007-06-26 16:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by danac210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear boxing gloves when you go to bed at nights.
2007-06-26 16:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋