I am 28 and over-weight, But I dress nice and people never think that I weigh as much as I do. ( I am tall ) but still a plus size no doubt about that. My husband thinks that I am just fine. I have no problems with men being attracted to me. But I think that I am discusting. But I see other over weight girls and I think that they are fine and sexy. What do you think?
2007-06-26 08:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by supergirlsls 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
There is nothing wrong with overweight girls. There are a lot of them who carry themselves well and dress accordingly.. I think its just a self-esteem issue.. You are beautiful regardless of how much you weigh.. You should walk around with your head held high and be thankful for who you are that you are blessed to still be here.. Iam not a big girl, but I know plenty of them and most are very beautiful and I am sure you are too. Your husband loves you and he is not just saying that you are fine to not hurt your feelings.. If he wasnt attracted to you, you would definitely know it.. Just love yourself as God does, and dont worry about what anyone else thinks!!!!
2007-06-26 09:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by lcnc21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key to this might be learning to love yourself, just as you are. Trying to compete with the weight obsessed culture that we have let gay designers create, that artificial standard of beauty that consists of a big head on a curve-less body that is basically a hangar for clothes has only made the diet and exercise charlatans rich. Love yourself, work on your overall health and fitness, not for how you "look" but how it leads to a long healthy and mobile life. Never think of yourself as anything other than a wonderful human being who is more than a dress size, more than a number on a scale. Your husband loves you, so he sees all of you, not some fake image from TV or a magazine....
2007-06-26 16:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by barrydalmi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly feel that an overweight woman can be great looking! If they take care of themself and are not always thinking they are so ugly, or fat, or whatever, its so much more attractive! Also, its HOT when a woman dresses in clothes to fit her body and to make it look good! I am not tiny either, so I hope that nobody ever thinks I'm disgusting. Don't be so hard on yourself. If your hubby loves you, what do you need (besides to love yourself???)
2007-06-26 16:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by hollydollyme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like the way you look, just lose 10 pounds or something small. Just because your overweight does'nt mean you are not beautiful. It doesn't matter what you look like. I think overweight girls are fine, as long as they are dressing appropriatly and not wearing tight clothes. It is ok to be alittle overweight. But you dont want to get where you are unhealthy, meaning diabetes, obesity, etc.
Love you for who you are, not for what you look like.
2007-06-26 16:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jessika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about yourself on the inside. I am 29 5'10 200 and sometimes i feel disgusting but thats on my down days and other days i feel sexy. I go to college and beleive me thier are some really pretty girls that i fell like i cant compare to. I just know that i am loved and thats what really matters. Most of all i love myself for everything that i am.
2007-06-26 16:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by cher b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the way you are ....dont think that just becoz some is sexy i am not equal.... well if u feel over weight then reduce some pounds............As long as ur attractive u dont have to worry
2007-06-26 16:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by manpreetfullinfaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your fine if every one tells you that you are.
maybe lose a few pounds untill your happy with what you look like.
:)
2007-06-26 16:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why worry what anybody else thinks....as long as your husband thinks your fine....that,s all that matters.....
2007-06-26 16:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by JBKS_10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋