i have no clue what to do... i have this boyfriend who is 19 and we have been going out for 6 months but he just went off to college, i know one just graduated and the 17 year old is a senior, im only a freshmen... but one night when i was at a party i met the 17 year old and we kinda hooked up and that was my first time cuz me and the 19 wanted to wait, latly i have been not feeling well, could i be pregnant?? he did forget his condom but it was just one time... im only 15, what else could it be?? i need help cuz i already feel guily for cheating on my 19 year old bf... please give me advice.
2007-06-26 07:46:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Bad choice. You could now be suffering the consequences of being a moron and having unprotected sex. getting pregnant only takes one time... tell your boyfriend and get some help before you really ruin your life.
2007-06-26 07:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well Hun im in the same hole but im not pregnant..Im Only 14 and a guy thats 19 and a guy thats 21 likes me.I meen honestly since the 19 year old has respect for u then u should stay with him but the 17 year old just probably wants sex.And yea u should go to the doctor or somethin to get checked and have a std test to.I meen If ur 15 and pregnant then there is goin to be a long hard road.Im not sayin ur a hoe or anything but u should find a guy ur age and that respects u for who u are not who he wants u to be.And If sex is all the guys want then wait for bf till ur a little older...But i wish u the best of luck and if u ever need to talk just message me.
2007-06-26 12:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Kimberly*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guily for cheating on the 19 year old. And one time can get ya pregnant hun... go to the doctor or get a pregnancy test from the store. And by the way, It's illegal for you to be dating a 19 year old.
2007-06-26 08:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ok i going to be a jr and in high school
And i see it all the time Seniors hooking up[ w freshmen you know why
because they can
they know the freshman are going to fall for all their **** when girls their one age have learned not to deal with them
They take advantage of them and they know it and so do all the other people(except the freshmen who are new obviously and have not seen it a thousand times before)
It really sucks what you did. Ya you could be pregnant no to mention have an STD. Good luck and learn from this.
ur bf is too old for you. its cool that he wanted to wait but still long distance relationships are hard and its illegal and so was hooking up with that guy statutory rape is when your partner is 2 or more years older than you.
2007-06-26 07:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by crista1_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all 19 is too old, if fact you are under 16, so sex with you is illegal for anybody. You shouldn't be having sex period, and especially without a condom. IT ONLY TAKES ONE TIME TO GET PREGNANT OR AN STD. You should really wait until you are older and in a loving, strong, adult relationship before engaging in adult activities.
2007-06-26 07:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by ourkidz0003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 19 is too old for you but there is nothing wrong with dating a 17 year odl at your age but that is dating not having sex. You need to go to plannedparenthood you need to get a pregnancy test and you need to get tested for every std. If you do not want to go to your parent get your 19 year old boyfriend to take you. Which means yes you will have to tell him you cheated and yes it will be hard but you have no other choice (except for parents).
2007-06-26 07:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥me♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be pregnant...even if it was your first time. take a pregnancy test and see. but 15 is young to be having sex. and if you are pregnant your 19 year old boyfriend (which you shouldn't have either) will find out you cheated on him....so best to tell him that you did. it's a good idea though that your boyfriend and you waited to have sex because if you have sex with him.....he could go to jail because it's illegal.
2007-06-26 07:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by gemmc1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you don't know what you want, and your'e too young! You need to worry about finishing school! The 19 year old is gonna find out that ur not a virgin when ya'll do it. You need to take a preg test. you could be, it only takes one time!
2007-06-26 08:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by kittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been pregenant twice biggiest signs is tired not ablel keep your mind from wondering feeling motion sickness sleeping more than normal great waight loss or gain but the sleeping more than normal is the biggest sign. next if your not sure take a (PREGNANCY TEST) and sorry to say but now days you have to be carefull you might have an std to. ur 15 you have your whole life ahead of you wait to sex
2007-06-26 07:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Krista S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 19 year old is an adult you're not. IF you are pregnant he could get into major trouble (jail) because having sex with a minor (you) is statutory rape. Why your parents would allow you to date to begin with is beyond me, why they allowed you to date an adult was just asking for trouble on their part.
2007-06-26 07:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time to get pregnant. You are very young you should never have unprotected sex but since you already did. If your period is late you should go take a preg. test and as for you cheating on your boyfriend just tell him
2007-06-26 07:50:21 · answer #11 · answered by skyler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋