We have been married a long time, and have grown children, and grands also..He got accussed of this, and now we are in court over this...We have a lawyer etc...He has been a good husband and provider since we have been married..I just keep thinking...This hurts so bad, and do I need to support him still or leave him...So many doubts...Im in church and Im thinking this is the old devil trying to get me to hate my husband..need some advice, and please be nice..
2007-06-26 07:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by Wanda S 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television ➔ Talk Shows
Wanda... you didn't give details as to what was inappropriate these days people are suing over things that in the past would have been handled with a curt response or even a "slap" if necessary to put someone in their place. maybe your hubby meant nothing by his actions and the other person is being overly offended. if your husband never has shown this type of behavior before tell him he's an old fool who'd better learn to keep his hands to himself from now on and support him as the man you know he is otherwise if he's done it before demand he take some kind of counseling but unless it was really a bad thing you should stand by him.
2007-06-26 07:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Richard E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you that if some child or female accuses your husband of touching them inappropriately, you need to believe the child and leave him. I've seen this many times. What is the sense of staying with someone who behaves like this. They don't stop.
2007-06-27 11:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i thinkit depends on what he did and whether he really did it or not. if it was someone at work say that just misunderstood something, themn yes. stay and support him. if it is a child or undersge girl. leave him! i cant say much more because i don tknow the details but if you truly love him support him, but i could not support someone i knew did something really inappropriate w/ anyone! good luck! and best wishes hun!
2007-06-26 17:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by chloalikev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is better to stay with the devil you know than to find the devil you don't know. You've been with him a long time. Starting over again as a divorced woman is hard, and more than likely, you will never find another. Forgive him and then move ahead with your life.
2007-06-26 17:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a really tough situation your going through right now and i hope you know i care about your feelings but,i think you deserve some time alone to yourself just until you can decide what to do.the decision is totally up to you and it should be based entirely on how you feel and if you can go on living and making love to a man who sexually offended another woman especially with a man whom you've shared your life with but,just think about it and if you need to talk just email me ok
2007-06-26 17:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by laura m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say whether he actually did it or not. Have you even asked him? If he didn't do it then by all means support him and get through this. But if he did, then you may need to reconsider what is important to you.
2007-06-26 14:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
depends if he's guilty or not
2007-06-26 15:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by succubus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋