My boyfriend complains that we don't engage in oral sex much. I personally don't like it. He's requested that I engage in it more, but I am dreading the thought of it! It's nothing with him, he doesn't smell, he's a good size, no bumps etc. I do have a gag reflex so I don't go too deep but I just get so bored and don't find it exciting...how can I make our sex life more interesting? How can I satisfy his request without wanting to jump out the window!
2007-06-26 03:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by melly 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
FIRST OFF SWEETIE , IF YOU REALLY DONT LIKE IT , THEN YOU NEED TO SIT YOUR B/F DOWN AND EXPLAIN THAT TO HIM , YOU WILL WANT TO JUMP OUT THE WINDOW EVERYTIME U DO IT , UNLESS YOU AND HE TALK. YALL TALK ABOUT YOUR LIKES , DISLIKES , HIS LIKES , DISLIKES , TRUST ME COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY. AND IF U JUST INSIST ON DOING THIS WITH HIM , THERE ARE ALOT OF CREAMS WITH DIFFERENT FLAVORS FOR U TO PUT ON HIM BEFORE AT THE ADULT STORE, SO TRY THAT (I PERSONALLY LIKE CHERRY LOL ) SO GOOD LUCK TO U HUN.
2007-06-26 03:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by xxrolltideexx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys seem to always get more out of that than we do. I don't like to do it either. I try and get enjoyment on how much he is enjoying it and that helps. But I generally end up planning what I am going to do next and try not to think about it. I know no personally who is female that likes doing it but a know a lot of women who like the power it gives them over the guy. There is a book called Blow him away at Barnes and Nobel. It gives some good tips
2007-06-26 10:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Done 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him try the same for you. Togetherness is what it's all about. Get him to do something for you in exchange. Patience and a learning time
2007-06-26 10:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by teamkimme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 'going down' on you at the same time and if he's doing it right, having him in your mouth while you are in his mouth can really be a turn on. Just be careful, cause if he gets too turned on, he can be too enthusiastic.
2007-06-26 16:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by SUSIEQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Communication is the most important thing. If he really cares about you he won't make you do something you don't like.
2007-06-26 11:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel ya.i dint like giving it but i sure as hell like receiving it.but if u do want to do it for him try some edible things to use.it might help.go to a sex store and see what you can get to help you.and if you really dint want to he should understand.
2007-06-26 10:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by krazygirl30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One gets ice cream flavored condoms nowadays.
Try that.
2007-06-26 10:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for the same treatment in return.
2007-06-26 10:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋